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This is a totally new kind of dating site – for someone to be online at mysinglefriend®, a friend has described and recommended them as a pretty fabulous (and single!) person. This means anyone can take part, single or not. It also means that our singles are not alone - they have their friends with them every step of the way.

We don't publish anything here without the single person's approval - so it's a safe and fun way to try and find some decent dates - click below on the 'question mark' icons to find out more!

what does this site do?
how much does it cost?
I am the single one - how can I join?
I want to add my single friend - tell me more
a friend describes their single pal, an email goes to the single who then has to look over, approve and add comments to the description before it goes live.

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a single can nominate themselves, ask a friend to describe them, again approving the description and adding comments before it goes live.

We wanted to invent a dating site that was more fun, more interactive and less scary than the traditional way - so we could get people talking and meeting who probably wouldn't dream of joining a conventional dating agency and have the chance to get to hear about each other. How are we going to get all these wonderful cool people to meet? A little help from our friends!

Single and a secret?

If you are the single person, or you know a single, whose own social circle is now desiccated of decent dating potential then this site could be for you. Wondering where all the good ones are? We know you are out there somewhere!

You can imagine that it's really not easy to describe yourself and throw yourself 'out there' all on your own. So we think the idea of having a friend persuade, endorse and depict someone is far less intimidating, and it certainly makes for a more fascinating and enlightening read!

You don't have to be 'looking for love' – let's just get a wider dating pool of super-singles, resulting in some good, old-fashioned, decent dates!

It's different too because YOU AND YOUR FRIEND are both involved; the friend who describes the single has log in details too – gaining the ability to search through the latest potentials online, and recommend them to their single friend to take a look at (just like the meddling we all do offline!).

Having a friend involved means that checking out a potential can be done together- and friends seeking out suitable types for each other generates a little matchmaking amusement – and not by a computer, but by someone who actually knows you.
FREE (becoming a 'free profile' user)

You won't be able to send messages to other singles however you'll be able to receive messages and see who they are from.
You can search for singles, tailor that search and make notes, bookmark and favourite those you like the look of and invite as many friends as you like to recommend people to you. The profile will be seen online at MSF just like any other profile.

The free user will be emailed when someone likes them, when there are new members to look at, when they have a recommendation, when someone has sent them a friend request, or when they have a message (you can then decide whether to upgrade to read and reply to that message).


PAYING (becoming a 'subscribing' user)

You can send and receive mail, prepare and save draft emails as well as block messages. You get access to all the features mentioned above however we also offer free one-to-one advice to ensure you make the most of your stay.

£21 for 1 month
£38 for 3 months (£12.66 per month)
£64 for 6 months (£10.66 per month)


Cheaper than any other dating website!
You CAN join the site yourself. You can put your own personal details in, and then you'll be asked to tell us the email address of the friend who is going to describe you.

They say you can tell a person by their friends so think about whom you choose!

A form will be sent to your friend to fill out. Nothing gets added to our site without your permission so the description your friend submits will be sent back to you for your approval. You can then add your comments, and upload/change your photo.

Your profile online will look exactly the same as all the other profiles in the site and users will not know that you found the site yourself and didn't join the site the other way round (i.e. a friend began the process for you).

Click on 'become a single friend' to start adding your profile.

All your personal details are safe, as are your friends'. No one will know who you are, or your email address. Users can only contact you through this site.
Gosh – what a nice friend! You must think your friend is worth hearing about!

Are they single? Are they fabulous? Would they cringe at the idea of typical online dating? If yes – then this site might be for them……

Firstly, you need to think (or talk to your friend) about how they would feel about being recommended to our fabulous dating pool. If you think they'll be up for it start by filling out the 'add my single friend' form and describe them to us.

An email will be sent to your friend explaining what this site does, that you want to say how super they are, and they'll be asked to approve your words. If your friend isn't happy about being online at the site, then they can say no. If they think it's a good idea they can add comments to what you've already written, and change or upload a photo.

After successfully joining you'll be able to meddle too; recommending other singles to your friend as potential suitors (you'll see who's new in their area or can do a standard search of all the singles in the site).

Nothing will be added to our site without the complete approval of your single friend. All your personal details are safe, as are your friends'. No one will know who you are, or your email address. Users can only contact your friend through this site.