In Her Own Words
About her
Hello!
I suppose reaching the age of 40 has made me wonder if I might like to meet someone. I’d ideally like to meet someone who enjoys travel, art, literature and can discuss/debate contentious subjects in a philosophical light.
I enjoy cooking, reading, spending quality time with friends, going to the theatre and watching ballet (I’m very particular!) listening to podcasts, meditation, arty/crafty things, skincare, walking my dogs and… daydreaming!
I’m by no way a hard line feminist, although I have worked in a lot of different sectors over the years and like to keep moving rather than staying in the same job for 40 years. Before I became unwell, I worked in Cyber Security.
I spent a large part of my childhood abroad and my ethnicity is very mixed!
I should caveat all of this by saying that I am currently going through chemotherapy and it’s not great, I need something to look forward to when I get better ◡̈
I wish everyone lots of love and I hope you all get to meet someone lovely.
P.S. Please, allow me to express a modest request. In the interest of maintaining decorum, I kindly ask that you avoid sending images not fully clothed and engaging with my profile, whether through messaging or favouriting. This request is not a judgment of character but a plea for the respect of standards and civility I adhere to.
About her ideal match
Someone who is funny, spontaneous and who has good chat. Can’t stand idleness and people who are dogmatic in their beliefs. No fashionable haircuts/clothes. I prefer classic/timeless.
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About her
Country of origin: |
United Kingdom | |
Location: |
Church Stretton (Enchmarsh), Shropshire, England | |
Gender: |
Female | |
Age: |
40 | |
Star sign: |
Pisces | |
Height: |
5' 3" (160cm) | |
Body type: |
Curvaceous | |
Looks: |
Average | |
Hair colour: |
Blonde | |
Eye colour: |
Blue | |
Relationship Status: |
Divorced | |
Looking for: |
Let's see what happens; A long-term relationship; Marriage | |
Have children: |
No | |
Want children: |
Maybe | |
Daily diet: |
Eat healthily | |
Smoking: |
Never | |
Drinking: |
Never | |
Education: |
Postgraduate | |
Occupation: |
Political / Government | |
Income: |
Comfortable | |
Ethnicity: |
Other | |
Home language: |
English | |
Other languages: |
French; German; Hindi; Polish; Portuguese; Russian | |
Religion: |
Christian / Catholic |
About her ideal match
Country of origin: |
Anywhere in the World | ||
Location: |
Within 100 miles of postcode district SY6 (Church Stretton) | ||
Gender: |
Male | ||
Age range: |
35 - 60 | ||
Star sign: |
Any | ||
Height: |
5' 9" (174cm) - 6' 3" (191cm) | ||
Body type: |
Slim; Average; Athletic; A few extra pounds; Other; Stocky | ||
Looks: |
Any | ||
Hair colour: |
Any | ||
Eye colour: |
Any | ||
Has a photo: |
Not important at all | ||
Relationship Status: |
Single; Separated; Divorced; Widowed | ||
Have children: |
Any | ||
Want children: |
Any | ||
Daily diet: |
Eat most things; Eat healthily; Vegetarian; Vegan; Kosher; Hindu diet | ||
Smoking: |
Any | ||
Drinking: |
Any | ||
Education: |
University / College student; Further education; University; Postgraduate; Private school | ||
Occupation: |
Arts / Music / Writing; Executive / Management; Financial services; Labour / Construction; Legal; Medical / Dental / Veterinary; Political / Government; Retired; Sales / Marketing; Self-employed; Science / Engineering / Research; Other; Agriculture; Consultancy / Design; IT / Telecoms | ||
Income: |
Solvent; Enough; Comfortable; Wealthy | ||
Ethnicity: |
Any | ||
Home language: |
Any | ||
Other languages: |
Any | ||
Religion: |
Any |
- Not important at all
- Slightly important
- Moderately important
- Decidedly important
- Non-negotiable
More about her
Sense of humour: |
Dry |
Intelligence: |
Intellectually Challenged |
Ruled by: |
Pleasure |
Party behaviour: |
A social butterfly |
Personality traits: |
Adventurous; Ambitious; Faithful; Funny; Generous; Happy; Independent; Optimistic; Philosophical; Shy |
Valued qualities: |
Charity; Chemistry; Compassion; Contentment; Devotion; Faithfulness; Forgiveness; Friendliness; Honesty; Hope; Humility; Humour; Kindness; Mercy; Moderation; Patience; Self-control; Tolerance |
Fashion sense: |
Classic (My tastes echo long-established norms) |
Favourite clothing: |
Something my (grand)mother made me. |
Eyesight: |
I wear contacts |
Body art: |
Pierced ears |
Date activities: |
A picnic in a park; Dinner at a restaurant; Going to the theatre; Meeting for coffee; Going for a walk; Visiting a gallery; Going to a museum |
Music preferences: |
Classical; Electronic Dance Music; Latin; Opera; Pop / Top 40; Punk; R&B / Soul; Rap / Hip Hop; Reggae; World |
Reading: |
I read books regularly; I read newspapers regularly |
Books: |
Fiction; History; Non-fiction; Science / Technology; Travel |
TV habits: |
I prefer listening to the radio |
TV programmes: |
Action / Adventure; Documentaries; Dramas; Nature/Wildlife |
Movie frequency: |
Never |
Movie preferences: |
Action; Cult Classics; Documentary; Drama; Mystery; War |
Interests: |
Board games; Business news; Collecting stamps, coins, etc.; Computer programming; Cooking; Gardening; Healthy living; Investing; Knitting; Meditation; Music; Painting; Photography; Politics; Pottery; Reading; Sculpting; Sewing; Shopping; Singing; The arts; Voluntary work; Writing books; Writing poetry |
Sport involvement: |
Bored to death |
Sports: |
Hiking; Tennis; Yoga |
Cooking: |
I love it! |
Food: |
Doesn't matter |
Go Out to Eat: |
I only eat out on special occasions |
Dietary Restrictions: |
Other |
Pace of Life: |
Chilled |
Time at work: |
I DO have a bed in my office! |
Pastimes of choice: |
Playing with my pet |
Time online: |
Once or twice a week |
Family size: |
I've got a brother |
Family contact: |
I see them when I can |
Relationship Type: |
I'm just plain single |
Willing to Relocate: |
I'm flexible |
Animals: |
I love my pet(s) |
Pets (Have): |
Dog(s) |
Pets (Like): |
Bird(s); Cat(s); Fish; Horse(s) |
Turn-ons: |
Intelligence; Power; Sarcasm |
Turn-offs: |
Assertiveness; Body piercing(s); Long hair; Showing affection in public; Tattoo(s) |
Work aspirations: |
Fire the boss |
Religious attendance: |
Rarely |
Dream home: |
In the mountains |
Retirement plans: |
Living in the country |
Feelings about using MySingleFriend: |
Hopeful; Optimistic |
Honesty: |
Extremely |
