In Her Own Words
About her
It is usually a persons eyes and smile that I first notice, so if you don’t have public profile photos we won’t connect. I don’t use WhatsApp with strangers until we’ve met in person and decided we get along (it’s reserved for friends and family). I’m genuinely looking to meet someone local within SW London or in the SW Home Counties.
If the concept of being awake early, finding humour in almost anything, being outside, eating clean, being on the water, out of town, or in the park are things that you can relate to then we'll get along. If you have a passion for something practical or creative we'd have a talking point. I firmly believe life is about moments in the real world, travel light, check in nothing, but check out everything. I'm a visually curious person, with a healthy dose of mindfulness and emotional intelligence. I enjoy spending time with friends and family, usually the one to suggest a BBQ, catchup, weekend away, swim in the sea, picnic on the hill or lunch in a local pub.
I've lived in and around the capital for 20 years but grew up in East Anglia and I'm still a country girl at heart.
If meeting someone here leads to more that would be a bonus. If I make a few friends along the way life would be all the richer. Expectations are for those who have a goal in life, I'd rather focus on the journey. I'm happy to spend time with someone who doesn't take life too seriously and wants to see where getting to know each other takes us. I don't chase after people anymore, if they like spending time with me they will do so, if not I am content with my own company. I find we are sometimes way too quick to judge these days, so I'm keeping an open mind on here about the type of people I might meet.
Day to day my work gives me flexibility and a varied routine.
I don't have children, and I am not looking to start a family, though I do bring my own brand of mischievous childishness to the equation given the right company.
About her ideal match
Someone similar in age, with a practical and/or creative mindset? I'm not overly interested in the boxes you've ticked so far in life, that was then and this is now.
I seek out those who exude a deep sense of self, kindness, purpose, contentment, imagination and balance in this strange new world in which we find ourselves.
Where life is taking you next will get my undivided attention. A person who acknowledges we only get one shot at this life, and if we are not making life better for those around us what do we live for.
Someone who comes along and takes your subconscious by surprise, and the mind somewhere you didn't quite expect?
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About her
Country of origin: |
United Kingdom | |
Location: |
Richmond upon Thames, Surrey, England | |
Gender: |
Female | |
Age: |
49 | |
Star sign: |
Capricorn | |
Height: |
5' 8" (173cm) | |
Body type: |
Average | |
Looks: |
Attractive | |
Hair colour: |
Dark Blonde | |
Eye colour: |
Brown | |
Relationship Status: |
Single | |
Looking for: |
Activity partners; Friends; Let's see what happens | |
Have children: |
No | |
Want children: |
No | |
Daily diet: |
Eat healthily | |
Smoking: |
Never | |
Drinking: |
Occasionally | |
Education: |
Postgraduate | |
Occupation: |
Other | |
Income: |
Ask me later | |
Ethnicity: |
White/Caucasian | |
Home language: |
English | |
Other languages: |
Ask me later | |
Religion: |
Ask me later |
About her ideal match
Country of origin: |
Anywhere in the World | ||
Location: |
Within 40 miles of postcode district TW10 (Richmond) | ||
Gender: |
Male | ||
Age range: |
40 - 58 | ||
Star sign: |
Any | ||
Height: |
5' 8" (172cm) - 6' 11" (210cm) or taller | ||
Body type: |
Slim; Average; Athletic; A few extra pounds | ||
Looks: |
Above Average; Average; Attractive | ||
Hair colour: |
Blonde; Dark Blonde; Light Brown; Dark Brown; Auburn; Red; Black; Greying; Grey; Bald; Balding; Shaved | ||
Eye colour: |
Any | ||
Has a photo: |
Non-negotiable | ||
Relationship Status: |
Single; Divorced | ||
Have children: |
Any | ||
Want children: |
No | ||
Daily diet: |
Eat healthily | ||
Smoking: |
Never | ||
Drinking: |
Occasionally | ||
Education: |
University / College student; Further education; University; Postgraduate | ||
Occupation: |
Any | ||
Income: |
Any | ||
Ethnicity: |
White/Caucasian | ||
Home language: |
English | ||
Other languages: |
English | ||
Religion: |
Any |
- Not important at all
- Slightly important
- Moderately important
- Decidedly important
- Non-negotiable
More about her
Sense of humour: |
Witty |
Intelligence: |
Intelligent |
Ruled by: |
The heart |
Party behaviour: |
A social butterfly |
Personality traits: |
Adventurous; Ambitious; Cautious; Confident; Easygoing; Faithful; Funny; Happy; Independent; Intelligent; Loving; Loyal; Optimistic; Outgoing; Quiet; Realistic; Stable; Thoughtful; Trustworthy |
Valued qualities: |
Chemistry; Compassion; Contentment; Devotion; Faithfulness; Forgiveness; Friendliness; Honesty; Humility; Humour; Kindness; Patience; Sexiness; Tolerance |
Fashion sense: |
Alternative (I'm stylish in my own special way) |
Favourite clothing: |
My trusty pair of jeans |
Favourite colour: |
Blue |
Hair style: |
Long; Straight |
Eyesight: |
I wear glasses only when reading |
Disabilities: |
I have none |
Body art: |
I don't have any |
Date activities: |
A picnic in a park; Meeting for coffee; Meeting for drinks; Going for a walk |
Music preferences: |
Alternative; Blues; Classical; Country & Western; Dance / Disco; Electronic Dance Music; Folk; Instrumental; Jazz; Latin; R&B / Soul; Rock; World |
Reading: |
I read books occasionally; I read magazines occasionally |
Books: |
Fiction; History; Self-help |
TV habits: |
I don't have a television |
TV programmes: |
Action / Adventure; Comedy / Sit-coms; Documentaries; Dramas; Educational; Nature/Wildlife |
Movie frequency: |
Occasionally or irregularly |
Movie preferences: |
Action; Art Films; Comedy; Documentary; Drama; Independent; Romance |
Interests: |
Card games; Cooking; Gardening; Healthy living; Painting; Pottery; Sculpting; Sewing; The arts; Voluntary work; Woodwork; Writing poetry |
Sports: |
Badminton; Camping; Canoeing; Hiking; Horse Riding; Ice Skating; Inline / Roller skating; Sailing; Skiing; Swimming; Table Tennis; Walking; Windsurfing |
Cooking: |
I quite like cooking |
Food: |
Asian Fusion; Greek; Indian; Italian; Japanese; Pub Grub; Seafood; Sushi; Thai |
Go Out to Eat: |
I eat out a few times a month |
Dietary Restrictions: |
I have none |
Pace of Life: |
Go with the flow |
Time at work: |
I work at home |
Pastimes of choice: |
Socialising with friends |
Time online: |
Once or twice a week |
Take drugs: |
Never |
Family size: |
I've got a brother |
Family contact: |
I see them as often as possible |
Relationship Type: |
I'm just plain single |
Willing to Relocate: |
I'm flexible |
Animals: |
I like animals |
Turn-ons: |
Dancing; Erotica; Flirting; Intelligence; Showing affection in public; Skinny dipping; Thrill seeking |
Turn-offs: |
Assertiveness; Body piercing(s); Long hair; Power; Sarcasm; Tattoo(s) |
Work aspirations: |
I already have my ideal job |
Religious attendance: |
I'm non-practising |
Dream home: |
Eco home in the countryside |
Politics: |
I have no interest in politics |
Retirement plans: |
Living in the country |
Feelings about using MySingleFriend: |
Hopeful; Curious; Optimistic |
Honesty: |
Extremely |