In Her Own Words
About her
Warm, genuine, friendly. I can come across initially as quiet - still waters run deep - but in my comfort zone have a sense of fun and sparkle.
Love to surf - go fairly regularly- love the escapism it offers and the excuse to go to beautiful places - the most memorable being Norway, Costa Rica and north and west Scotland. It also took me recently to NZ - though the surf to mileage ratio ended up pretty low. I guess it's taught me a lot about patience ...
Next to sport I still have a passion for music and dance - my taste in music is rather eclectic (some may say random) though I have to confess there are huge gaps in my music knowledge - but still, I love a good tune (perhaps a bit more than that ... I used to study music), and love to dance, simple as that. I enjoy being creative in the kitchen and am a bit of a foodie.
I work in London and live just over half an hour away in Essex.
About her ideal match
Kind and generous-natured with a relaxed, positive outlook. Ideally into their sport/the outdoors, someone attractive inside and out.
What Her Friends Say
Jan said...
Esther is the sort of person that you call when you want some really good company, she always makes me feel good about myself. She likes to pretend she is disorganised but the evidence is different; I think its just that she is sometimes over optimistic about how many things she can cram into her free time.
Esther is often the one that drags a group of us out to do or go somewhere new. She often arrives a few minutes late for things but lights up the room as soon as she bounds in! She appears quiet and reserved when you first meet her- but persevere and you will be rewarded with her sharing with you her ironic sense of humour and wicked laugh!
She can hold her own in a conversation on any topic (I suppose its her background in arts and sciences), and sometimes you end up having those early morning deep conversations- just wish I could remember our conclusions! What I really admire in her is that she does not let being a single girl put her off trying new activities or travelling- her latest 'love' being surfing! She is great company on a night out- which is always memorable- be it an art exhibition or trying to find something to eat after a London Salsa club- when neither the local lap dancing or poker clubs seemed very accommodating!
What she does not like is pretension or falseness in any shape or form. If pushed to describe a fault I would say that sometimes she spends too long analysing a situation instead of being more spontaneous- but I am sure the right partner could soon cure her of that. To say she is beautiful is not necessary- her photo should tell you that- but it does not capture the vitality and warmth that Esther has.
I find it hard to believe she is in her mid- thirties- she seems much younger- my family have dubbed her the coolest friend I have...
About her
Country of origin: |
United Kingdom | |
Location: |
Chelmsford, Essex, England | |
Gender: |
Female | |
Age: |
50 | |
Star sign: |
Libra | |
Height: |
5' 8" (173cm) | |
Body type: |
Athletic | |
Looks: |
Ask me later | |
Hair colour: |
Black | |
Eye colour: |
Ask me later | |
Relationship Status: |
Single | |
Looking for: |
Let's see what happens; A long-term relationship; Marriage | |
Have children: |
No | |
Want children: |
Maybe | |
Daily diet: |
Ask me later | |
Smoking: |
Never | |
Drinking: |
Occasionally | |
Education: |
University | |
Occupation: |
Financial services | |
Income: |
Ask me later | |
Ethnicity: |
Mixed | |
Home language: |
English | |
Other languages: |
French | |
Religion: |
Spiritual, but not religious |
About her ideal match
Country of origin: |
Anywhere in the World | ||
Location: |
Within 40 miles of postcode district CM1 (Chelmsford) | ||
Gender: |
Male | ||
Age range: |
41 - 50 | ||
Star sign: |
Any | ||
Height: |
5' 8" (172cm) - 6' 11" (210cm) or taller | ||
Body type: |
Slim; Average; Athletic | ||
Looks: |
Above Average; Average; Attractive | ||
Hair colour: |
Blonde; Dark Blonde; Light Brown; Dark Brown; Auburn; Red; Black; Changes Often; Greying; Grey; White; Balding; Shaved | ||
Eye colour: |
Any | ||
Has a photo: |
Non-negotiable | ||
Relationship Status: |
Single; Divorced; Widowed | ||
Have children: |
Any | ||
Want children: |
Maybe | ||
Daily diet: |
Any | ||
Smoking: |
Never; Trying to Quit | ||
Drinking: |
Occasionally; Several times a week; Most days | ||
Education: |
University / College student; Further education; University; Postgraduate | ||
Occupation: |
Any | ||
Income: |
Any | ||
Ethnicity: |
Any | ||
Home language: |
Any | ||
Other languages: |
Any | ||
Religion: |
Any |
- Not important at all
- Slightly important
- Moderately important
- Decidedly important
- Non-negotiable
More about her
Intelligence: |
Intelligent |
Party behaviour: |
An average mingler |
Personality traits: |
Adventurous; Confident; Funny; Generous; Intelligent; Loyal; Thoughtful |
Valued qualities: |
Chemistry; Kindness |
Music preferences: |
Classical; Dance / Disco; Electronic Dance Music; Latin; Pop / Top 40; R&B / Soul; Rap / Hip Hop; Rock |
Books: |
Fiction |
TV habits: |
I don't have a television |
Movie preferences: |
Art Films; Comedy; Drama; Independent |
Interests: |
Cooking; Gardening; Healthy living; Music; Reading; The arts |
Sport involvement: |
An active participant |
Sports: |
Dance; Surfing; Swimming; Yoga |
Cooking: |
I love it! |
Food: |
Asian Fusion; Fine Dining; French; Gastro Pub; Greek; Indian; Italian; Seafood; Sushi; Thai; Vietnamese |
Dietary Restrictions: |
I have none |
Pace of Life: |
Hectic |
Relationship Type: |
I'm just plain single |
Animals: |
I like animals |
Pets (Have): |
Dog(s) |
Dream home: |
On a beach |
Politics: |
Left of centre |
Retirement plans: |
Pursuing a sport or hobby |
Feelings about using MySingleFriend: |
Hopeful |