In His Own Words
About him
The past is the past, and I am very happy as I am, and drama free, but there is room for someone special too. I love being by the coast and one day I'll make the move from the Shires to the beach.
I'm a qualified Project Manager but also have an NVQ in professional cookery, am a trained pastry chef, volunteer as a chef for Crisis at Christmas, and spent many years in the T.A. I'm very grounded, pragmatic, appreciate the arts and theatre and can manage happily in most situations.
I also play the ukulele and do charity gigs at care homes and other venues, or rather did before the pandemic 😞
About his ideal match
My ideal match..... there's a long list and a short list. In essence I'd like to find a vivacious, graceful and eloquent lady who likes lots of varied things. There’s really no point saying too much here as someone can be perfect on paper but we may not have the elusive spark. Better to have a quick coffee and see than send a dozen emails.
What His Friends Say
Stephanie said...
Ian is relaxed, kind-hearted and smiley. Very intelligent, immensely cuddly and tactile, he always looks on the bright side and truly enjoys life. We shared a house and very many laughs while at University and have continued to laugh together ever since.
He can't resist biscuits, loves food generally and is a great cook. Ian can shake his tush on the dance floor with the best of them whether salsa-ing or throwing shapes in Ibizan clubs. You'll find him on the golf course whenever possible and he's also passionate about cricket, rugby and sailing. Although he is happiest outdoors you can take him anywhere. He's well house-trained.
He avoids being the centre of attention but there's always a twinkle in his eye, whether it's with a mischievous thought or an inspired escapade, he relishes adventures, large or small and will happily skip off at a moment's notice if there is fun to be had. Terribly witty, Ian is also generous with his time and energy, intensely loyal and full of old-fashioned integrity. Ready to nest, Ian's a great listener and actually likes shopping! He has lots of female friends and now just needs one "special" one.
If you are smiley, sociable and spontaneous, enjoy good food and travel and you look good in heels, get in touch - soon. If you have a Brummie accent, forget it. He does have some prejudices! Feel free to ask him why. Oh, and you will need to love Mr Jonny too, his devoted cat. He's so super fabulous he won't be on the market for long so call him today. He deserves someone as special as you.
About him
Country of origin: |
United Kingdom | |
Location: |
Aylesbury (Wendover), Buckinghamshire, England | |
Gender: |
Male | |
Age: |
59 | |
Star sign: |
Sagittarius | |
Height: |
5' 10" (178cm) | |
Body type: |
Average | |
Looks: |
Average | |
Hair colour: |
White | |
Eye colour: |
Blue | |
Relationship Status: |
Divorced | |
Looking for: |
Activity partners; Let's see what happens; A short-term relationship; A long-term relationship; Marriage | |
Have children: |
No | |
Want children: |
Ask me later | |
Daily diet: |
Eat healthily | |
Smoking: |
Never | |
Drinking: |
Occasionally | |
Education: |
University | |
Occupation: |
Self-employed | |
Income: |
Comfortable | |
Ethnicity: |
White/Caucasian | |
Home language: |
English | |
Other languages: |
None | |
Religion: |
Spiritual, but not religious |
About his ideal match
Country of origin: |
Anywhere in the World | ||
Location: |
Within 20 miles of postcode district HP22 (Aylesbury) | ||
Gender: |
Female | ||
Age range: |
48 - 58 | ||
Star sign: |
Any | ||
Height: |
5' 3" (159cm) - 5' 9" (176cm) | ||
Body type: |
Slim; Average; Athletic; Curvaceous | ||
Looks: |
Very Attractive; Above Average; Average; Attractive | ||
Hair colour: |
Any | ||
Eye colour: |
Any | ||
Has a photo: |
Decidedly important | ||
Relationship Status: |
Single; Separated; Divorced; Widowed | ||
Have children: |
Any | ||
Want children: |
Any | ||
Daily diet: |
Eat most things; Eat healthily; Vegetarian | ||
Smoking: |
Never | ||
Drinking: |
Occasionally; Several times a week; Most days | ||
Education: |
University / College student; Further education; University; Postgraduate; Private school | ||
Occupation: |
Administrative / Secretarial; Arts / Music / Writing; Executive / Management; Financial services; Food / Catering; Legal; Medical / Dental / Veterinary; Political / Government; Sales / Marketing; Self-employed; Teaching / Education / Training; Science / Engineering / Research; Transportation; Other; Agriculture; Media; Consultancy / Design; IT / Telecoms; Leisure / Tourism | ||
Income: |
Solvent; Enough; Comfortable; Wealthy | ||
Ethnicity: |
Asian; White/Caucasian; Mixed | ||
Home language: |
Any | ||
Other languages: |
Any | ||
Religion: |
Agnostic; Atheist; Buddhist / Taoist; Christian / Other; Spiritual, but not religious; Christian / Orthodox |
- Not important at all
- Slightly important
- Moderately important
- Decidedly important
- Non-negotiable
More about him
Sense of humour: |
Light-hearted |
Intelligence: |
Intelligent |
Ruled by: |
Pleasure |
Party behaviour: |
An average mingler |
Personality traits: |
Adventurous; Cautious; Confident; Easygoing; Faithful; Funny; Generous; Happy; Independent; Intelligent; Loving; Loyal; Optimistic; Philosophical; Quiet; Realistic; Sensible; Shy; Stable; Thoughtful; Trustworthy |
Valued qualities: |
Chemistry; Compassion; Contentment; Faithfulness; Friendliness; Honesty; Humility; Humour; Kindness; Patience; Sexiness; Tolerance |
Fashion sense: |
Casual (I'm usually in my favourite jeans) |
Favourite clothing: |
My trusty pair of jeans |
Favourite colour: |
Blue |
Hair style: |
Short |
Eyesight: |
I wear glasses only when reading |
Facial hair: |
I'm clean-shaven |
Body hair: |
Light |
Disabilities: |
I have none |
Body art: |
I don't have any |
Date activities: |
A music concert; A picnic in a park; Dinner at a restaurant; Going out dancing; Going to the theatre; Meeting for coffee; Meeting for drinks; Going for a walk |
Music preferences: |
Alternative; Broadway / Theatrical; Classical; Dance / Disco; Electronic Dance Music; Folk; Gospel / Religious; Instrumental; Latin; New Age; Opera; Punk; Reggae; Rock; World |
Reading: |
I read books regularly; I read magazines regularly |
Books: |
(Auto)biographies; Fantasy; Mystery; Sci-Fi |
TV habits: |
I rarely watch television |
TV programmes: |
Comedy / Sit-coms; Sport |
Movie frequency: |
Occasionally or irregularly |
Movie preferences: |
Art Films; Comedy; Cult Classics; Sci-Fi |
Interests: |
Board games; Card games; Cooking; Healthy living; Investing; Music; Reading; The arts; Voluntary work |
Sport involvement: |
A regular competitor |
Sports: |
Camping; Cricket; Curling; Dance; Golf; Hiking; Motorsport; Polo; Rugby; Sailing; Snorkeling; Walking; Yoga |
Cooking: |
I love it! |
Food: |
Asian Fusion; Chinese; Fine Dining; French; Gastro Pub; German; Greek; Indian; Italian; Thai |
Go Out to Eat: |
I eat out a few times a month |
Dietary Restrictions: |
Other |
Pace of Life: |
Manageable |
Time at work: |
I work a standard 40 hour week |
Pastimes of choice: |
Socialising with friends |
Time online: |
I'm on for an hour or two a day |
Take drugs: |
Never |
Family size: |
I've got a brother and a sister |
Family contact: |
I see them when I can |
Relationship Type: |
I'm just plain single |
Willing to Relocate: |
I'm flexible |
Animals: |
I like animals |
Pets (Have): |
Cat(s) |
Pets (Like): |
Bird(s); Dog(s) |
Turn-ons: |
Erotica; Flirting; Intelligence; Long hair; Skinny dipping |
Turn-offs: |
Body piercing(s); Tattoo(s) |
Work aspirations: |
Find new, more meaningful work |
Religious attendance: |
Never |
Dream home: |
On a beach |
Politics: |
Left of centre |
Retirement plans: |
Sipping margaritas on a beach |
Feelings about using MySingleFriend: |
Hopeful |
Honesty: |
Extremely |