In His Own Words
About him
Too modest to boast about anything.... I am down to earth, like hanging out with friends over a drink / meal, watching films, taking long walks, yoga, bowling, cooking / baking with my kids, or just chilling out. It's always nicer to do these things in company :-)
I am divorced with 3 kids, 2 are grown up, eldest moved away and 2nd now at Uni the 3rd with his mother in Scotland.
I am of Indian origin though born in London - actually it is nice to see some of you have actually put "Indian" in your matching criteria, yes I am open to relationships with non-Indians.
I have been told by friends that I don't look anywhere near my age and in my head I still feel like I am in my 40s.
Profession: IT Project Manager, yes that has the word "IT" in it but actually I spend most of my time dealing with many people across all departments of the company (no I don't man the help desk LOL).
Outlook on life: Well, since 7 years have now passed since my (difficult, long and drawn out) divorce, and I have had another 3.5 year relationship since, I have overcome depression and improved my outlook on life.
About his ideal match
Having been through a difficult marriage it's too hard for me to say what is ideal. Someone who is genuine, honest understanding, flexible and not high maintenance.
If you enjoy having a banter, yet can have a serious conversation when needed; enjoy the outdoors as well as indoors; value companionship and the need for each to have their own space; enjoy a wide range of activities, confident, and are tactile then it's a great way to start to find out more about each other.
** It's not really working for me with matches far away, ideally you will be in South Bucks/South Herts/Middx/North Surrey/East Berks/Outer NW London area **
A lot of women put on their profiles that their match should be 5+ inches taller than them, I do seem to find that put's me out of their range?
I am happy to message provided you give me more than one word answers! Otherwise prefer a phone call then to meet up.
When you message me do tell me which site you joined, this platform supports many brands (e.g. Saga, Classic FM), the one I joined is mysinglefriend.com
What His Friends Say
Miranda said...
The first time I met Milind was day one of our Spanish lessons and as soon as he walked into the room I knew he was special. His warm personality was instantly evident and his cheeky sense of humour that makes him so easy to be around set everyone at ease right away.
He's humble - but he has a lot to be proud of. He's smart, but not a boffin. He's well dressed, but not a poser. He's healthy and naturally slim, but not obsessed with all that stuff. He's good looking, but he really doesn't know it. But above all he's kind hearted and genuine.
He's pretty new to the dating scene, so don't expect a player with slick moves, just a real gentleman who would like to meet a real lady. He is great fun to be around and isn't shy of deep and meaningful conversations, but his Spanish...? Let's just say the lessons will be needed for some time to come...
About him
Country of origin: |
United Kingdom | |
Location: |
Amersham (Little Chalfont), Buckinghamshire, England | |
Gender: |
Male | |
Age: |
60 | |
Star sign: |
Aquarius | |
Height: |
5' 9" (175cm) | |
Body type: |
Slim | |
Looks: |
Attractive | |
Hair colour: |
Greying | |
Eye colour: |
Brown | |
Relationship Status: |
Divorced | |
Looking for: |
Friends; Let's see what happens; A short-term relationship; A long-term relationship; Something casual | |
Have children: |
Yes, living with me sometimes | |
Want children: |
No | |
Daily diet: |
Eat healthily | |
Smoking: |
Never | |
Drinking: |
Occasionally | |
Education: |
University | |
Occupation: |
Executive / Management | |
Income: |
Enough | |
Ethnicity: |
Indian | |
Home language: |
English | |
Other languages: |
None | |
Religion: |
Spiritual, but not religious |
About his ideal match
Country of origin: |
Anywhere in the World | ||
Location: |
Within 20 miles of postcode district HP7 (Amersham) | ||
Gender: |
Female | ||
Age range: |
36 - 61 | ||
Star sign: |
Any | ||
Height: |
5' 4" (162cm) - 6' 4" (194cm) | ||
Body type: |
Slim; Average; Athletic | ||
Looks: |
Very Attractive; Above Average; Average; Attractive | ||
Hair colour: |
Any | ||
Eye colour: |
Any | ||
Has a photo: |
Non-negotiable | ||
Relationship Status: |
Single; Separated; Divorced; Widowed; It's Complicated | ||
Have children: |
Any | ||
Want children: |
No | ||
Daily diet: |
Eat most things; Eat healthily | ||
Smoking: |
Never; Occasionally; Trying to Quit | ||
Drinking: |
Never; Occasionally | ||
Education: |
Any | ||
Occupation: |
Any | ||
Income: |
Solvent; Enough; Comfortable; Wealthy | ||
Ethnicity: |
Asian; Indian; Latino/Hispanic; Middle Eastern; White/Caucasian; Other; Mixed | ||
Home language: |
English; Albanian/Kosovan; Arabic; Bengali; Croatian; Danish; Dutch; Farsi/Persian; Finnish; French; Gaelic / Irish; German; Greek; Gujarati; Hebrew; Hindi; Italian; Malay; Norwegian; Panjabi; Polish; Portuguese; Romanian; Serbian; Spanish; Swedish; Turkish; Urdu; Welsh; Other | ||
Other languages: |
Any | ||
Religion: |
Agnostic; Atheist; Buddhist / Taoist; Christian / Catholic; Christian / Protestant; Christian / Other; Hindu; Spiritual, but not religious; Christian / Orthodox; Sikh |
- Not important at all
- Slightly important
- Moderately important
- Decidedly important
- Non-negotiable
More about him
Sense of humour: |
Light-hearted |
Intelligence: |
Intelligent |
Ruled by: |
Time |
Party behaviour: |
An impartial observer |
Personality traits: |
Confident; Easygoing; Faithful; Independent; Intelligent; Loyal; Quiet; Realistic; Sensible; Shy; Stable; Thoughtful; Trustworthy |
Valued qualities: |
Chemistry; Compassion; Contentment; Faithfulness; Forgiveness; Friendliness; Honesty; Hope; Humility; Humour; Kindness; Mercy; Moderation; Patience; Self-control; Sexiness; Tolerance |
Fashion sense: |
Casual (I'm usually in my favourite jeans) |
Favourite colour: |
Blue |
Hair style: |
Short |
Eyesight: |
I wear glasses |
Facial hair: |
I'm clean-shaven |
Body hair: |
Average |
Disabilities: |
I have none |
Body art: |
I don't have any |
Date activities: |
A movie; A picnic in a park; Dinner at a restaurant; Going to the theatre; Meeting for coffee; Meeting for drinks; Going for a walk; Visiting a gallery; Going to a museum |
Reading: |
I read newspapers occasionally |
TV programmes: |
Action / Adventure; Comedy / Sit-coms; Documentaries; Movie Channels; News |
Movie frequency: |
Occasionally or irregularly |
Movie preferences: |
Action; Black & White / Silent; Comedy; Cult Classics; Documentary; Drama; Mystery; War |
Interests: |
Board games; Business news; Card games; Cooking; Healthy living; Internet |
Sports: |
Walking; Yoga |
Cooking: |
I quite like cooking |
Food: |
Chinese; Doesn't matter; Gastro Pub; Greek; Indian; Italian; Japanese; Pub Grub; Seafood; Sushi; Thai; Vietnamese |
Dietary Restrictions: |
I have none |
Pace of Life: |
Hectic |
Time at work: |
I work a standard 40 hour week |
Time online: |
I'm on for an hour or two a day |
Take drugs: |
Never |
Family size: |
I've got a sister |
Family contact: |
I see them when I can |
Relationship Type: |
I'm just plain single |
Willing to Relocate: |
I'm unlikely to move |
Animals: |
I like animals |
Turn-ons: |
Flirting; Intelligence; Long hair |
Turn-offs: |
Power |
Work aspirations: |
Work fewer hours |
Religious attendance: |
I'm non-practising |
Feelings about using MySingleFriend: |
Hopeful; Curious; Optimistic; Excited |
Honesty: |
Extremely |
