44 – Wandsworth, London, England

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Modified: 20 January 2016

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Wandsworth, London, England
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5' 11" (180cm)
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About me: Hello. I'm long term housebound (since age 16) with a chronic neurological condition called POTS (Postural Orthostatic Tachycardia Syndrome) a form of Dysautonomia. On that basis I don't meet new people or make new friends. Achievements are scarce, however, vaguely interesting things I have got up to are:

*Designing my own ultra modern house, that won an award.
*Making DJ mixes for the local radio.
*Modifying cars and getting one in a magazine.
*Re-educating myself from home and getting accepted into University to study Nursing.

Before i got ill I used to love sport and was into mountain biking. motocross racing, motorbikes in general, table tennis and
badminton. Since I've gotten older, when possible I read medical research. Because my ill health defines me, I am thus 'into' health, despite not having any. When possible, I like to write my biography, which I guess will be a slow motion obituary at the pace I indulge at with the word processor. Writing is a great escape, it is also a great truth. When you are housebound you are invisible and your truth is censored, by isolation. I think I understand people at an unusual philosophical level, because I am stymied from communicating conventionally.

Who I am looking for: It would like to meet someone intelligent, who actively questions established knowledge, but still has a sense of humour intact. My competition has employment and ambition. Conversely, my ambition, is survival. To want to know me, you will want to know someone who has freedom taken from them but remains motivated and never gives up. I admire strong will power in others and being able to laugh despite circumstances.

If you have empathy yet are opinionated enough to be interesting, you will get on with me. I like a soul able to guide those who need guidance. I feel science, politics and technology allow us to establish a base for a better future for successive generations. We all have purpose, we are just distracted by convention.

Profession: Writer

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