In His Own Words
About him
The headline version:
Genuine, independent and emotionally available. No games. No drama. Just good energy and curiosity.
About me:
I’m honest, trustworthy, and comfortable being exactly who I am. I don’t do drugs, rarely drink and don’t smoke; currently vaping but kicking that habit soon. I live by strong morals without needing a religion and I’ve got my life together: my own home, my own car, no debts, no nonsense.
Personality-wise:
I’m a walking contradiction in the best way; patient yet impatient, careful yet spontaneous. I know what I want but I’m always open to learning. I’m not here for flings or mind games; I’m looking for something real, long-term and mutually enjoyable.
What I’m into:
Books, science, nature and figuring out how things work; often by taking them apart first. I’m handy, a solid DIYer and much happier fixing things than watching TV. I live with four rescue cats who run the house and keep me smiling daily. Good manners matter to me and I notice when others have them too.
The fine print:
I’m great with tools, cars and road trips in the caravan. Cooking and dancing however, are best left to someone else. My music taste is wide-ranging but if opera is your thing, one of us might need headphones.
Curious?
Ask me something interesting; I promise a proper answer.
About his ideal match
What I’m looking for:
A genuinely trustworthy woman, ideally around my age, with a good sense of humour and a healthy appreciation for pedantry. Bonus points if you can laugh at yourself and don’t mind a bit of word-nerdery; knowing the difference between there, their and they’re, to, too and two and your, you’re and eh.., ewer.
You’re kind, patient, empathetic and actually interested in building and maintaining a relationship. You treat everyone with respect but you don’t bow to anyone unnecessarily; confidence with kindness is a great look.
Physical attraction matters too (let’s be honest), but chemistry beats checklists every time. Shorter than me in heels would be nice… but if you turn out to be my Neytiri, height is entirely irrelevant!
I’m looking for my Belle, the Trinity to my Neo, Lois to my Peter, Victor to my Jack — okay, I’ve taken that too far! Loyalty, honesty, integrity and humour go a long way. If you’re still in touch with your inner child, that’s especially appealing.
(Extra points if you caught the references.)
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About him
Country of origin: |
United Kingdom | |
Location: |
Falkirk, Falkirk, Scotland | |
Gender: |
Male | |
Age: |
58 | |
Star sign: |
Capricorn | |
Height: |
5' 7" (170cm) | |
Body type: |
Average | |
Looks: |
Attractive | |
Hair colour: |
Auburn | |
Eye colour: |
Grey | |
Relationship Status: |
Single | |
Looking for: |
Just online friends; Activity partners; Friends; Let's see what happens; A short-term relationship; A long-term relationship; Marriage | |
Have children: |
No | |
Want children: |
Maybe | |
Daily diet: |
Eat most things | |
Smoking: |
E-cigarette User | |
Drinking: |
Occasionally | |
Education: |
University / College student | |
Occupation: |
Retired | |
Income: |
Enough | |
Ethnicity: |
White/Caucasian | |
Home language: |
English | |
Other languages: |
Gaelic / Irish | |
Religion: |
Atheist |
About his ideal match
Country of origin: |
Anywhere in the World | ||
Location: |
Within 40 miles of postcode district FK4 (Bonnybridge) | ||
Gender: |
Female | ||
Age range: |
40 - 57 | ||
Star sign: |
Any | ||
Height: |
4' 7" (140cm) or shorter - 5' 6" (168cm) | ||
Body type: |
Slim; Average; Athletic; Curvaceous | ||
Looks: |
Very Attractive; Above Average; Average; Attractive | ||
Hair colour: |
Any | ||
Eye colour: |
Any | ||
Has a photo: |
Non-negotiable | ||
Relationship Status: |
Single; Separated; Divorced; Widowed | ||
Have children: |
Any | ||
Want children: |
Any | ||
Daily diet: |
Eat most things; Eat healthily | ||
Smoking: |
Never; Occasionally; Regularly; Trying to Quit; E-cigarette User | ||
Drinking: |
Never; Occasionally; Several times a week | ||
Education: |
Any | ||
Occupation: |
Any | ||
Income: |
Solvent; Enough; Comfortable; Wealthy | ||
Ethnicity: |
White/Caucasian; Mixed | ||
Home language: |
English | ||
Other languages: |
Gaelic / Irish | ||
Religion: |
Any |
- Not important at all
- Slightly important
- Moderately important
- Decidedly important
- Non-negotiable
More about him
Sense of humour: |
Sarcastic |
Intelligence: |
Intelligent |
Ruled by: |
The head |
Party behaviour: |
An impartial observer |
Personality traits: |
Cautious; Easygoing; Faithful; Funny; Generous; Happy; Intelligent; Loving; Loyal; Melancholy; Mild; Philosophical; Quiet; Realistic; Sarcastic; Sensible; Shy; Stable; Thoughtful; Trustworthy |
Valued qualities: |
Chemistry; Compassion; Contentment; Devotion; Faithfulness; Friendliness; Honesty; Hope; Humour; Kindness; Moderation; Patience |
Fashion sense: |
Casual (I'm usually in my favourite jeans) |
Favourite clothing: |
My trusty pair of jeans |
Favourite colour: |
Orange |
Hair style: |
Long; Straight; Well-behaved |
Eyesight: |
I wear glasses only when reading |
Body hair: |
Light |
Body art: |
I don't have any |
Date activities: |
A movie; A music concert; A picnic in a park; Dinner at a restaurant; Going to the theatre; Meeting for coffee; Meeting for drinks; Going for a walk |
Music preferences: |
Alternative; Blues; Broadway / Theatrical; Classical; Dance / Disco; Folk; Instrumental; Latin; Pop / Top 40; Rock; Scottish |
Reading: |
I read books occasionally; I read newspapers occasionally |
Books: |
Crime; Fiction; Sci-Fi |
TV habits: |
I rarely watch television |
TV programmes: |
Action / Adventure; Cartoons; Comedy / Sit-coms; Dramas; Educational; Movie Channels; Nature/Wildlife; Sci-Fi; Variety shows |
Movie frequency: |
Occasionally or irregularly |
Movie preferences: |
Action; Comedy; Cult Classics; Drama; Independent; Mystery; Sci-Fi |
Interests: |
Acting; Auto repair; Board games; Card games; Computer programming; Internet; Photography; Politics; Singing; Woodwork; Writing poetry |
Sport involvement: |
Watching from the couch |
Sports: |
Backgammon; Bowling; Bowls; Bungee jumping; Camping; Curling; Flying / Gliding; Golf; Horse Riding; Ice Skating; Motorsport; Pool; Sky diving; Snooker; Swimming |
Cooking: |
I can't or won't cook |
Food: |
Chinese; Gastro Pub; Indian; Italian; Pub Grub |
Go Out to Eat: |
I only eat out on special occasions |
Dietary Restrictions: |
I have none |
Pace of Life: |
Chilled |
Time at work: |
I'm retired |
Pastimes of choice: |
Pursuing a hobby |
Time online: |
I check in once a day |
Take drugs: |
Never |
Family size: |
I've got a brother and a sister |
Family contact: |
I see them when I can |
Relationship Type: |
I'm just plain single |
Willing to Relocate: |
For the right person, to the moon! |
Animals: |
I love my pet(s) |
Pets (Have): |
Cat(s) |
Pets (Like): |
Bird(s); Dog(s); Exotic pet(s); Fish; Reptile(s); Rodent(s); Other; Horse(s) |
Turn-ons: |
Flirting; Intelligence; Long hair; Showing affection in public; Sarcasm; Thrill seeking |
Turn-offs: |
Power; Tattoo(s) |
Religious attendance: |
Doesn't apply |
Dream home: |
Eco home in the countryside |
Politics: |
Left of centre |
Retirement plans: |
Living in the country |
Feelings about using MySingleFriend: |
Nervous; Hopeful; Curious; Optimistic |
Honesty: |
Extremely |