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Matt_5503

53 – Lewisham (South London), London, England

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Modified: 29 October 2022

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About him

Country of origin:
United Kingdom
Location:
Lewisham (South London), London, England
Gender:
Male
Age:
53
Star sign:
Leo
Height:
6' 0" (183cm)
Body type:
Average
Looks:
Attractive
Hair colour:
Grey
Eye colour:
Brown
Relationship Status:
Single
Looking for:
Let's see what happens; A long-term relationship; Marriage
Have children:
Yes, not living with me
Want children:
Maybe
Daily diet:
Eat healthily
Smoking:
Never
Drinking:
Occasionally
Education:
Postgraduate
Occupation:
Teaching / Education / Training
Income:
Ask me later
Ethnicity:
White/Caucasian
Home language:
English
Other languages:
None
Religion:
Agnostic

About his ideal match

Country of origin:
Anywhere in the World
Location:
Anywhere in the World
Gender:
Female
Age range:
30 - 47
Star sign:
Any
Height:
4' 7" (140cm) or shorter - 6' 0" (184cm)
Body type:
Slim; Average; Athletic
Looks:
Very Attractive; Above Average; Attractive
Hair colour:
Dark Blonde; Light Brown; Dark Brown; Auburn; Red; Black; Greying; Grey
Eye colour:
Black; Blue-Green; Brown; Green; Grey; Hazel
Has a photo:
Non-negotiable
Relationship Status:
Single; Separated; Divorced; Widowed
Have children:
Yes, not living with me; Yes, living with me; Yes, living with me sometimes
Want children:
Yes
Daily diet:
Eat most things; Eat healthily
Smoking:
Never
Drinking:
Occasionally; Several times a week
Education:
University; Postgraduate
Occupation:
Any
Income:
Solvent; Enough; Comfortable; Wealthy
Ethnicity:
Any
Home language:
Any
Other languages:
Any
Religion:
Any
  • Not important at all
  • Slightly important
  • Moderately important
  • Decidedly important
  • Non-negotiable

In His Own Words

About him

Friends would describe me as caring, sensitive, creative, intelligent, cultured, openly affectionate, a good listener, able to admit when I’m feeling vulnerable but importantly, equally strong and independent as well. I am mature and reliable and complete things when I say I’m going to do something. And a “people person”, a lover of foreign lands and “outdoorsy”: apparently I do both the “Arty stuff” and the “active stuff” rather well! I recently went on a blind date to ‘get myself out there’!

I also enjoy art and design, walks on the hills and by the sea, cooking, reading books, films, theatre, gallery’s and museum visits, photography and good food and wine, sometimes with friends, restaurants, coffee shops and keeping active and fit, cycling, but I’m not fanatically about fitness!

I spend my time between my lodgings in South London where I am a Head of Department in scenic Art and Design and then down in Sussex, freelance designing (performance, museums and exhibitions, gardening design and maintenance work. I once designed a set for Vanessa Redgrave at the Riverside Studios and have won awards for other designs. And I’ve just brought a house in Hastings and gradually renovating it as well.

I’m looking for a long term relationship. I believe in mutual respect, trust and love with a woman and the maturity of being able to relax with each other. Good, intelligent conversation with each other, chemistry of course, as well as the ubiquitous cuddling on the sofa with the large glass of red!

It would be lovely to be part of a family again, whether that’s together or that you have children I could help to raise and support, or a combination of both, of course! My daughters are 21 now and independent. Two are at University in York, one still at home with mum in Darlington.

If you are looking for a genuine relationship, then it would be great to hear from you

Matt

About his ideal match

The same really, someone who will reflect the qualities I believe in, being a decent human being primarily , and caring, sensitive, funny, creative, intelligent, cultured, relaxed and a humane, a “people person” and sometimes “outdoorsy”, as well as feminine, attractive and curling up on the sofa together, with a good glass of red!
Pretence, selfishness and conservative attitudes are a deal breaker for me as is wanting to be ‘one up’ on others, which is not a priority for me!
Humanity, reflection in each other’s values, and a love of nature are.

What His Friends Say

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More about him

Personality
Sense of humour:
Light-hearted
Intelligence:
Intelligent
Ruled by:
Opportunity
Personality traits:
Adventurous; Ambitious; Easygoing; Faithful; Funny; Generous; Happy; Independent; Intelligent; Loving; Loyal; Optimistic; Philosophical; Quiet; Thoughtful; Trustworthy
Valued qualities:
Celibacy; Chemistry; Compassion; Contentment; Devotion; Faithfulness; Friendliness; Honesty; Hope; Humility; Humour; Kindness; Patience; Sexiness; Tolerance
Fashion sense:
Contemporary (I'm cool, but I don't need labels)
More physical characteristics
Hair style:
Medium
Eyesight:
I wear glasses and contacts
Facial hair:
I'm clean-shaven
Body hair:
Hairy chest only
Disabilities:
I have none
Body art:
I don't have any
Leisure & entertainment
Date activities:
A movie; A picnic in a park; Dinner at a restaurant; Going to the theatre; Meeting for coffee; Meeting for drinks; Going for a walk; Visiting a gallery; Going to a museum
Music preferences:
Blues; Broadway / Theatrical; Classical; Jazz; Latin; Opera; World
Reading:
I read books regularly; I read magazines occasionally
Books:
(Auto)biographies; Fiction; History; Non-fiction; Travel
TV habits:
I tend to watch cultural programmes
TV programmes:
Comedy / Sit-coms; Cooking / Baking; Documentaries; Dramas; Educational; Movie Channels; Nature/Wildlife
Movie frequency:
Occasionally or irregularly
Movie preferences:
Action; Adult; Art Films; Cult Classics; Documentary; Drama; Independent; Mystery; Romance; Westerns
Interests:
Cooking; Gardening; Healthy living; Painting; Photography; Reading; Sculpting; The arts
Sport involvement:
An active participant
Sports:
Archery; Camping; Canoeing; Cycling; Golf; Hiking; Mountain biking; Sailing; Swimming; Walking; Weight training; Yoga
Food
Cooking:
I really enjoy cooking
Food:
Chinese; French; Gastro Pub; Greek; Indian; Italian; Japanese; Thai
Go Out to Eat:
I only eat out on special occasions
Dietary Restrictions:
I have none
More lifestyle
Pace of Life:
Organised
Time at work:
I always put in overtime
Pastimes of choice:
Visiting a museum or gallery
Time online:
I'm on for an hour or two a day
Take drugs:
Never
Family size:
I've got a brother
Relationship Type:
I'm just plain single
Willing to Relocate:
I'd consider it
Likes & dislikes
Animals:
I like animals
Pets (Like):
Dog(s)
Turn-ons:
Dancing; Flirting; Intelligence; Long hair; Showing affection in public
Turn-offs:
Body piercing(s); Sarcasm
The deep stuff
Work aspirations:
I already have my ideal job
Religious attendance:
Doesn't apply
Dream home:
On a beach
Politics:
Left of centre
Feelings about using MySingleFriend:
Nervous; Curious; Optimistic
Honesty:
Extremely