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Toby_9957

38 – Romsey, Hampshire, England

Guy who isn't afraid to laugh at himself can't come up with a good tagline here...

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Modified: 28 March 2018

About him

Country of origin:
United Kingdom
Location:
Romsey, Hampshire, England
Gender:
Male
Age:
38
Star sign:
Scorpio
Height:
6' 0" (183cm)
Body type:
Average
Looks:
Average
Hair colour:
Dark Blonde
Eye colour:
Blue
Relationship Status:
Divorced
Looking for:
Let's see what happens; A short-term relationship; A long-term relationship; Marriage
Have children:
Yes, living with me sometimes
Want children:
Maybe
Daily diet:
Eat most things
Smoking:
Never
Drinking:
Several times a week
Education:
University
Occupation:
IT / Telecoms
Income:
Solvent
Ethnicity:
White/Caucasian
Home language:
English
Other languages:
Ask me later
Religion:
Christian / Other

About his ideal match

Country of origin:
Anywhere in the World
Location:
Within 60 miles of postcode district SO51 (Romsey)
Gender:
Female
Age range:
27 - 39
Star sign:
Any
Height:
4' 11" (149cm) - 6' 1" (186cm)
Body type:
Average; Curvaceous
Looks:
Above Average; Average; Attractive
Hair colour:
Blonde; Dark Blonde; Light Brown; Dark Brown; Auburn; Red; Black; Changes Often
Eye colour:
Any
Has a photo:
Decidedly important
Relationship Status:
Single; Separated; Divorced; Widowed
Have children:
Any
Want children:
Any
Daily diet:
Eat most things; Eat healthily; Vegetarian
Smoking:
Never
Drinking:
Any
Education:
Further education; University; Postgraduate
Occupation:
Any
Income:
Solvent; Enough; Comfortable; Wealthy
Ethnicity:
Any
Home language:
Any
Other languages:
Any
Religion:
Christian / Protestant; Christian / Other
  • Not important at all
  • Slightly important
  • Moderately important
  • Decidedly important
  • Non-negotiable

In His Own Words

About him

I've lived in Hampshire for most of my life, but I also spend time in London fairly regularly. Music (both performing and listening/watching) is a big part of my life, and most people would probably say my tastes are quite eclectic, veering away from some of the more frequently found stuff. I'd probably describe myself as rather on the geeky side, but I love involving other people in that part of my life. I'm also a big fan of more "advanced" board games (so not Monopoly or Cluedo), and play the odd video game from time to time. I'm a firm believer in equality, but I don't think that that excludes a good chivalrous act here and there. I enjoy eating out and discovering interesting ways to pass an evening. I generally try not to take myself too seriously, am generally willing to laugh at my own expense, and I love a good/really bad pun (or five).
I'm looking for someone to laugh with, share experiences with, and see how things turn out...

About his ideal match

Someone who doesn't take herself too seriously. I think you'd probably need to identify yourself as either a bit of a muso, or a nerd/geek type - if you're both, then so much the better! You'd definitely need to be OK with kids, as when she's with me, my little girl is a massive part of my life.
A nice weekend could involve roller-coasters one day, and board games the next, probably with a good meal thrown in somewhere along the way.
Deal-breakers would probably be smoking, and, I guess, being a Brexit-supporter - sorry, but there would probably be way too many arguments!

What His Friends Say

Alice said...

Toby is one of the most genuine and kind (straight) men on the planet. He's funny, clever and unfailingly loyal. I love him to bits and believe he deserves a far better ride in the romance stakes than he's had of late. So, prove me right. Meet him and tell him how lovely he is (and fall in love, happy fairy tale, yada yada); and, at the very least, go out for a drink and make a fab friend. BTW, in the interests of full disclosure he's also an awesome Daddy to his lovely daughter (who lives with him about a quarter of the time) and is solvent.

More about him

Personality
Sense of humour:
Caustic
Intelligence:
Intelligent
Ruled by:
Time
Party behaviour:
An average mingler
Personality traits:
Easygoing; Faithful; Funny; Intelligent; Loving; Loyal; Philosophical; Sarcastic; Thoughtful; Trustworthy
Valued qualities:
Charity; Devotion; Faithfulness; Friendliness; Honesty; Humour; Patience
Fashion sense:
Alternative (I'm stylish in my own special way)
Favourite colour:
Red
More physical characteristics
Hair style:
Short; It has its moods
Eyesight:
I wear glasses
Facial hair:
I'm clean-shaven
Body hair:
Light
Body art:
I don't have any
Leisure & entertainment
Date activities:
A music concert; A picnic in a park; Attending a sporting event; Dinner at a restaurant; Going to the theatre; Meeting for coffee; Meeting for drinks; Going for a walk
Music preferences:
Classical; Gospel / Religious; Heavy Metal; Instrumental; Jazz; Rock
Reading:
I read books regularly; I read newspapers occasionally
Books:
(Auto)biographies; Crime; Fantasy; Fiction; Romance; Sci-Fi; Science / Technology
TV habits:
I rarely watch television
TV programmes:
Comedy / Sit-coms; Documentaries; Sci-Fi
Movie preferences:
Action; Comedy; Drama; Sci-Fi
Interests:
Board games; Computer & video games; Internet; Music; Reading; Singing; The arts
Sport involvement:
Watching from the couch
Sports:
Cricket; Cycling; Football (Soccer); Pool
Food
Cooking:
I quite like cooking
Food:
Chinese; Fast food; Gastro Pub; Indian; Italian; Pub Grub; Thai
Go Out to Eat:
I eat out a few times a month
Dietary Restrictions:
I have none
More lifestyle
Pace of Life:
Manageable
Time at work:
I work a standard 40 hour week
Pastimes of choice:
Pursuing a hobby
Time online:
I'm on several hours a day
Take drugs:
Never
Family size:
I've got a sister
Family contact:
I see them when I can
Relationship Type:
I'm just plain single
Willing to Relocate:
I'm unlikely to move
Likes & dislikes
Animals:
I love my pet(s)
Pets (Have):
Cat(s)
Pets (Like):
Dog(s)
Turn-ons:
Erotica; Flirting; Intelligence; Long hair; Showing affection in public; Skinny dipping
The deep stuff
Work aspirations:
I already have my ideal job
Religious attendance:
Once a month
Dream home:
House in the suburbs
Politics:
Green
Retirement plans:
Doing voluntary work
Feelings about using MySingleFriend:
Nervous; Hopeful; Curious; Embarrassed; Excited
Honesty:
Quite