In His Own Words
About him
Resident in SW London/Surrey (Old Malden in Royal Borough of Kingston upon Thames).
Completely honest profile - my integrity isn't negotiable...
I'm still a bit of a teenager at heart and definitely single, divorced and live on my own! I'm very tall, broad-shouldered and not overweight. Some say handsome, but that's subjective. I was brought up to be well-mannered, well-spoken (mostly - sometimes drop into the vernacular); in fact a strong yet gentle gentleman. Kind, warm and caring - I like to trust folk although these days I'm cautious initially. You will find me to be a quick wit, lateral thinker and have an ever-present sense of humour. I can be wickedly mischievous and cheeky a lot of the time, too! Having said that, I'm respectful of boundaries and observant. A bright glint in both eyes allows me to see both external attractiveness and that hidden within.
Although I'm educated and extremely intelligent, I'm happiest doing practical stuff because I'm active, intuitive and resourceful - far beyond the norm. The engineer inside me doesn't have the glass half full/empty syndrome - the glass is twice the size it needs to be!
Great in conversation and a mine of useless trivia, information and facts/apocrypha, with an incredible memory, so often go off on a tangent. I'm best one-to-one or small groups, as I'm conspicuous and prefer not to be the centre of attention.
I'm not a fan of being photographed, although I'm only hideous during daylight 😵😉😉😉!! Camera-shy is my middle name. I have very few photos but won't put them out for the world online.
At last I've uploaded one photo. Perhaps a date might like to take more for me? That would defeat the purpose. Add me as a favourite to see it, but you can un-favourite me even more quickly (assuming you recover!) if I don't appeal!
I am on the quest to discover the magnet whose South pole is facing my North - and a rare-earth (neodymium) one hopefully.
Lif... Is too short! 😋
Drop me a message - or reply to mine! x
About his ideal match
This is my dream list of alphabetical descriptions, not exclusive or mandatory:
Amazing, Beautiful in and out(?!), Challenging, Discerning, Effervescent, Free-spirited, Giggler, Happy, Inspiring, Joker, Kind, Literate, Mischievous Music-lover, Naughty, Offbeat, Pulchritudinous, Quirky, Realist, Sexy, Tactile, Unimpressed by status, Vampish?, Wild (occasionally), Xenodochial, Young-at-heart, Zany!
Honestly, you won't need to be all of these, it's a bit tongue-in-cheek. Perhaps though, it gives an idea of how we may complement each other. If you see yourself as a fun-loving, tolerant, intelligent woman then we already have a foundation; just need to see if as the architects we're planning a similar building! Quick-witted, a lateral thinker and a love of banter (and teasing innuendo) make you great to be around and a practical, challenging nature means getting stuck into tasks is shared with relish.
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About him
Country of origin: |
United Kingdom | |
Location: |
Kingston upon Thames (Old Malden), Surrey, England | |
Gender: |
Male | |
Age: |
69 | |
Star sign: |
Leo | |
Height: |
6' 4" (193cm) | |
Body type: |
Athletic | |
Looks: |
Attractive | |
Hair colour: |
Shaved | |
Eye colour: |
Blue | |
Relationship Status: |
Divorced | |
Looking for: |
Activity partners; Friends; Let's see what happens; A short-term relationship; A long-term relationship; Marriage; Something casual | |
Have children: |
Yes, not living with me | |
Want children: |
No | |
Daily diet: |
Eat healthily | |
Smoking: |
Never | |
Drinking: |
Occasionally | |
Education: |
University / College student | |
Occupation: |
Science / Engineering / Research | |
Income: |
Comfortable | |
Ethnicity: |
White/Caucasian | |
Home language: |
English | |
Other languages: |
French | |
Religion: |
Christian / Protestant |
About his ideal match
Country of origin: |
Anywhere in the World | ||
Location: |
Within 60 miles of postcode district KT3 (New Malden) | ||
Gender: |
Female | ||
Age range: |
51 - 74 | ||
Star sign: |
Any | ||
Height: |
4' 11" (149cm) - 6' 4" (194cm) | ||
Body type: |
Slim; Average; Athletic; Curvaceous | ||
Looks: |
Very Attractive; Above Average; Average; Attractive | ||
Hair colour: |
Any | ||
Eye colour: |
Any | ||
Has a photo: |
Moderately important | ||
Relationship Status: |
Single; Separated; Divorced; Widowed | ||
Have children: |
Any | ||
Want children: |
No | ||
Daily diet: |
Eat most things; Eat healthily; Vegetarian | ||
Smoking: |
Never; Trying to Quit | ||
Drinking: |
Never; Occasionally; Several times a week | ||
Education: |
University / College student; Further education; University; Postgraduate; Private school | ||
Occupation: |
Any | ||
Income: |
Solvent; Enough; Comfortable; Wealthy | ||
Ethnicity: |
Any | ||
Home language: |
English; French | ||
Other languages: |
Any | ||
Religion: |
Agnostic; Atheist; Buddhist / Taoist; Christian / Catholic; Christian / Protestant; Christian / Other; Hindu; Jewish; Spiritual, but not religious; Other; Sikh |
- Not important at all
- Slightly important
- Moderately important
- Decidedly important
- Non-negotiable
More about him
Sense of humour: |
Irreverent |
Intelligence: |
Rocket Scientist |
Ruled by: |
The heart |
Party behaviour: |
An average mingler |
Personality traits: |
Easygoing; Faithful; Funny; Generous; Happy; Independent; Intelligent; Loving; Loyal; Philosophical; Realistic; Shy; Trustworthy |
Valued qualities: |
Chemistry; Compassion; Faithfulness; Forgiveness; Honesty; Humility; Humour; Kindness; Moderation; Patience; Self-control; Tolerance |
Fashion sense: |
Contemporary (I'm cool, but I don't need labels) |
Favourite clothing: |
My trusty pair of jeans |
Favourite colour: |
Blue |
Hair style: |
It's a distant memory |
Eyesight: |
I wear glasses only when reading |
Disabilities: |
I have none |
Body art: |
I don't have any |
Date activities: |
A movie; A music concert; A picnic in a park; Meeting for coffee; Meeting for drinks; Going for a walk; Visiting a gallery; Going to a museum |
Music preferences: |
Blues; Classical; Instrumental; Jazz; Latin; R&B / Soul; Reggae; Rock |
Reading: |
I read books occasionally; I read magazines occasionally |
Books: |
(Auto)biographies; Crime; Mystery; Non-fiction; Science / Technology |
TV habits: |
I don't have a television |
TV programmes: |
Comedy / Sit-coms; Educational; Nature/Wildlife |
Movie frequency: |
Occasionally or irregularly |
Movie preferences: |
Black & White / Silent; Comedy; Cult Classics; Drama; Mystery; Romance |
Interests: |
Board games; Card games; Cooking; Healthy living; Music; The arts; Woodwork |
Sport involvement: |
Watching from the sidelines |
Sports: |
Backgammon; Bowling; Dance; Inline / Roller skating; Lacrosse; Motorsport; Table Tennis; Volleyball; Walking |
Cooking: |
I really enjoy cooking |
Food: |
Chinese; French; Gastro Pub; Indian; Italian; Thai |
Pace of Life: |
Go with the flow |
Pastimes of choice: |
Spending time outdoors |
Time online: |
I'm on for an hour or two a day |
Take drugs: |
Never |
Family size: |
I've got sisters |
Relationship Type: |
I'm just plain single |
Willing to Relocate: |
I'm unlikely to move |
Pets (Like): |
Dog(s) |
Turn-ons: |
Dancing; Flirting; Intelligence; Showing affection in public |
Work aspirations: |
Work fewer hours |
Dream home: |
In the country |
Politics: |
I have no interest in politics |
Retirement plans: |
Living in the country |
Feelings about using MySingleFriend: |
Hopeful; Curious; Jaded |
Honesty: |
Extremely |