In His Own Words
About him
I am an easy going chap who enjoys the theatre and board games (the more complex the better, but Kerplunk will do!). I have a healthy and light-heartedly cynical outlook on the world but would like to see as much of it as possible, although I've seen enough of Croydon!
I come from a large family and love spending time with my nieces and nephews around the country. I am level-headed and naturally quite reserved but enjoy a spirited debate or an evening spent philosophising over good food and wine.
I am a keen Formula One fan and look forward to going to Silverstone each year for the Grand Prix. I enjoy reading for pleasure and playing video games. Whenever I can, I like to go walking - my commute is a long walk but love to get out on the hills too.
About his ideal match
I am looking for an intelligent, honest and open woman who has a sense for the ridiculous; someone who can switch between serious debate and unbridled silliness as the mood takes them.
I am not an Olympian myself but am quite active and love walking - if you can climb steps two-at-a-time then you're quite fit enough!
If you like a good walk, the occasional Play, quiet nights in and trips away - whether it be Hadrian's Wall or the Great Wall of China, then get in touch!
What His Friends Say
Greg said...
Full disclosure, Tom is my brother so I may be a little bit biased, but he is one of the kindest and most generous people you will meet. He always has time for family and friends (including looking after numerous nephews and nieces). I always looked up to him as a big brother; he took me gigging around Europe when I was a teenager and was always on hand with advice or just a sympathetic ear.
Tom is naturally reserved with a wry sense of humour and is definitely a man of hidden depths. Not one for the cheesy chat-up line or style-over-substance, Tom is very intelligent, and very thoughtful - but still enjoys a great deal of silliness!
I've cajoled Tom onto the site as he has so much to give to the right person - It might be you!
About him
Country of origin: |
United Kingdom | |
Location: |
Sutton, Surrey, England | |
Gender: |
Male | |
Age: |
47 | |
Star sign: |
Virgo | |
Height: |
5' 10" (178cm) | |
Body type: |
Average | |
Looks: |
Average | |
Hair colour: |
Bald | |
Eye colour: |
Brown | |
Relationship Status: |
Single | |
Looking for: |
Let's see what happens; A long-term relationship | |
Have children: |
No | |
Want children: |
Maybe | |
Daily diet: |
Eat most things | |
Smoking: |
Never | |
Drinking: |
Occasionally | |
Education: |
University | |
Occupation: |
Executive / Management | |
Income: |
Comfortable | |
Ethnicity: |
White/Caucasian | |
Home language: |
English | |
Other languages: |
None | |
Religion: |
Atheist |
About his ideal match
Country of origin: |
Anywhere in the World | ||
Location: |
Within 20 miles of postcode district RH1 (Redhill) | ||
Gender: |
Female | ||
Age range: |
28 - 43 | ||
Star sign: |
Any | ||
Height: |
4' 7" (140cm) or shorter - 6' 0" (184cm) | ||
Body type: |
Slim; Average; Athletic; A few extra pounds; Curvaceous; Full figured | ||
Looks: |
Any | ||
Hair colour: |
Any | ||
Eye colour: |
Any | ||
Has a photo: |
Moderately important | ||
Relationship Status: |
Single; Separated; Divorced; Widowed | ||
Have children: |
No | ||
Want children: |
Any | ||
Daily diet: |
Eat most things; Eat healthily; Vegetarian | ||
Smoking: |
Never | ||
Drinking: |
Occasionally; Several times a week | ||
Education: |
University / College student; Further education; University; Postgraduate | ||
Occupation: |
Any | ||
Income: |
Any | ||
Ethnicity: |
Any | ||
Home language: |
Any | ||
Other languages: |
Any | ||
Religion: |
Agnostic; Atheist |
- Not important at all
- Slightly important
- Moderately important
- Decidedly important
- Non-negotiable
More about him
Sense of humour: |
Dry |
Intelligence: |
Intelligent |
Ruled by: |
The head |
Party behaviour: |
An impartial observer |
Personality traits: |
Easygoing; Faithful; Funny; Generous; Intelligent; Loyal; Philosophical; Realistic; Thoughtful; Trustworthy |
Valued qualities: |
Faithfulness; Honesty; Humour; Kindness |
Favourite clothing: |
Anything, as long as it's black |
Eyesight: |
I wear glasses |
Disabilities: |
I have none |
Body art: |
I don't have any |
Music preferences: |
Classical; Heavy Metal |
Reading: |
I read books regularly; I read newspapers occasionally |
Books: |
Fantasy; Fiction; History; Non-fiction; Sci-Fi |
TV habits: |
I rarely watch television |
TV programmes: |
Documentaries; Sci-Fi; Sport |
Movie frequency: |
Occasionally or irregularly |
Interests: |
Board games; Card games; Computer & video games; Cooking; Music; Reading |
Sport involvement: |
Watching from the couch |
Sports: |
American Football; Cricket; Football (Soccer); Motorsport; Rugby; Snooker; Tennis; Wrestling |
Cooking: |
I quite like cooking |
Food: |
Doesn't matter |
Go Out to Eat: |
I eat out a few times a month |
Dietary Restrictions: |
I have none |
Pace of Life: |
Chilled |
Time at work: |
I work a standard 40 hour week |
Time online: |
I check in once a day |
Take drugs: |
Never |
Family size: |
I've lost count |
Family contact: |
I see them as often as possible |
Relationship Type: |
I'm just plain single |
Willing to Relocate: |
I'd consider it |
Animals: |
I like animals |
Pets (Like): |
Bird(s); Dog(s); Exotic pet(s); Fish; Reptile(s); Rodent(s); Other; Horse(s) |
Pets (Dislike): |
Cat(s) |
Turn-ons: |
Intelligence |
Work aspirations: |
Find new, more meaningful work |
Religious attendance: |
Never |
Dream home: |
Castle in Scotland |
Retirement plans: |
Enjoying the comforts of home |
Feelings about using MySingleFriend: |
Optimistic |
Honesty: |
Very |






