In His Own Words
About him
‘Tall, handsome, charming, generous, caring, muscular, wealthy, kind to children and little furry animals’. God, sometimes I wish I was all these things. It would certainly make this dating thing a lot easier. I haven’t even travelled much, and I wouldn’t know one end of a scuba from another. However, for a number of reasons (most of which, sadly, escape me at the moment) I could be a bit of a catch, especially if your thing is older, grey, balding men who don’t understand the world and spend far too much time thinking about it, reading about it, and talking rubbish about it after a few drinks. I love my children, reading and sport (not usually in that order) and I’d like to meet somebody who is warm, funny and who perhaps marches through life to the beat of a drum the rest of us will never hear. I thank you.
About his ideal match
Apologies for no photo (yet), me and technology have never really got on, I still have one of those large cameras you mount on a tripod with a black blanket you go under at the back whilst holding one of those flash light things. WIl add a photo as soon as I’ve worked out how to. Meantime fair to say I’m no Brad Pitt (yeah right Ray, you can say that again) but equally I’d like to think i’m not exactly Frankenstein’s monster either. Maybe somewhere in-betweenish.
Otherwise, as above.
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About him
Country of origin: |
United Kingdom | |
Location: |
Barnet, London, England | |
Gender: |
Male | |
Age: |
62 | |
Star sign: |
Scorpio | |
Height: |
5' 9" (175cm) | |
Body type: |
Average | |
Looks: |
Average | |
Hair colour: |
Bald | |
Eye colour: |
Green | |
Relationship Status: |
Single | |
Looking for: |
Friends; Let's see what happens; A short-term relationship; A long-term relationship | |
Have children: |
Yes, not living with me | |
Want children: |
No | |
Daily diet: |
Eat most things | |
Smoking: |
Never | |
Drinking: |
Several times a week | |
Education: |
Postgraduate | |
Occupation: |
HR / Recruitment | |
Income: |
Comfortable | |
Ethnicity: |
White/Caucasian | |
Home language: |
Ask me later | |
Other languages: |
English; French; Italian | |
Religion: |
Ask me later |
About his ideal match
Country of origin: |
Anywhere in the World | ||
Location: |
Within 20 miles of postcode district NW2 (London) | ||
Gender: |
Female | ||
Age range: |
45 - 60 | ||
Star sign: |
Any | ||
Height: |
Any | ||
Body type: |
Slim; Average; Athletic; Curvaceous; Full figured | ||
Looks: |
Very Attractive; Above Average; Average; Attractive | ||
Hair colour: |
Any | ||
Eye colour: |
Any | ||
Has a photo: |
Decidedly important | ||
Relationship Status: |
Single; Separated; Divorced; Widowed | ||
Have children: |
Any | ||
Want children: |
Any | ||
Daily diet: |
Any | ||
Smoking: |
Never; Trying to Quit | ||
Drinking: |
Occasionally; Several times a week; Most days | ||
Education: |
University / College student; Further education; University; Postgraduate | ||
Occupation: |
Any | ||
Income: |
Any | ||
Ethnicity: |
Any | ||
Home language: |
English | ||
Other languages: |
Any | ||
Religion: |
Any |
- Not important at all
- Slightly important
- Moderately important
- Decidedly important
- Non-negotiable
More about him
Sense of humour: |
Light-hearted |
Intelligence: |
Intelligent |
Party behaviour: |
An impartial observer |
Personality traits: |
Generous; Independent; Loyal; Philosophical; Realistic; Shy |
Valued qualities: |
Compassion; Friendliness; Humility |
Fashion sense: |
Alternative (I'm stylish in my own special way) |
Favourite clothing: |
Something my (grand)mother made me. |
Favourite colour: |
Blue |
Hair style: |
It's a distant memory |
Eyesight: |
I wear glasses |
Body hair: |
Average |
Disabilities: |
I have none |
Body art: |
I don't have any |
Date activities: |
A movie; Attending a sporting event; Dinner at a restaurant; Going to the theatre; Meeting for coffee; Meeting for drinks |
Music preferences: |
Alternative; Blues; Broadway / Theatrical; Classical; Jazz; Latin; Opera; Pop / Top 40; Punk; R&B / Soul; Reggae; Rock; World |
Reading: |
I read books regularly; I read newspapers regularly |
Books: |
(Auto)biographies; Fiction; History; Non-fiction; Science / Technology |
TV habits: |
I watch television most days |
TV programmes: |
Comedy / Sit-coms; Documentaries; Game shows; News; Sport |
Movie frequency: |
Once or twice a month |
Movie preferences: |
Action; Art Films; Comedy; Documentary; Drama; Sci-Fi |
Interests: |
Board games; Business news; Card games; Music; Politics; Reading; Shopping; The arts; Writing books |
Sport involvement: |
Watching from the sidelines |
Sports: |
American Football; Athletics; Backgammon; Boxing; Cricket; Football (Soccer); Pool; Rowing; Snooker; Table Tennis |
Cooking: |
I have to cook |
Go Out to Eat: |
I only eat out on special occasions |
Dietary Restrictions: |
I have none |
Pace of Life: |
Hectic |
Time at work: |
I always put in overtime |
Time online: |
Once or twice a week |
Take drugs: |
Never |
Family contact: |
I see them as often as possible |
Relationship Type: |
I'm just plain single |
Willing to Relocate: |
I'm unlikely to move |
Animals: |
I like animals |
Pets (Like): |
Dog(s) |
Work aspirations: |
Work fewer hours |
Religious attendance: |
Only on religious holidays |
Dream home: |
In the city |
Politics: |
Left of centre |
Retirement plans: |
Finally writing that novel |
Feelings about using MySingleFriend: |
Nervous; Hopeful |
Honesty: |
Very |