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Takingthisgently

65 – Norwich (In the city), Norfolk, England

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In His Own Words

About him

Of course not perfect, but my long term friends will know me as a decent guy, loyal, generous of spirit and compassionate. From a working class background where we did not over express. Learned over the course of the last three years to be more open and expressive about my feelings (it is a man thing?) and intuitive/listening to others.

I see that the last few year has been challenging on so many levels to lots of people and that it has equally brought out some of the best in people as well. I remain ready to share and enjoy with you cultural, epicurean, travel and physical pursuits. I think I am a good listener (maybe too good a talker!), appreciably left wing, practical and worldly curious.

Despite my very working class upbringing my radio is tuned to R4, but digitally now frequently drifting to R3 - must be an age thing. Moved from London to Norfolk Coast 20 years ago, but moved in to Norwich a year ago as it was just too quiet once I had `retired`. I do not do enough sport, I do walk, but cannot swim! I do not ski, snowboard, ride a horse, paraglide, nor sail. You will not see me pictured over, under or in a fancy car.

I do not own a suit, own only four sets of footwear and drive a 13 year old car! I hope this gives a nod as to my lack of interest in 'things'. Fairly minimalist and find going to 'tip' therapeutic!

Give me a coast or country walk and a homely pub and you`ll see my eyes twinkle..and yours?

My wardrobe could be better - fewer better clothes I suspect. Never knowingly consume Coca Cola or Nestle products and have not visited MacDonald's for over 30 years. Stopped full time work 4 years ago...still looking to do part time voluntary work.

I have done a reasonable amount of travelling - behind the `iron curtain` when it was there, further afield since.

I would like to start by meeting someone to spend time with to explore and enjoy what`s out and about and then see how that goes. Simple really (?)

About his ideal match

I would like to meet a warm, smart, kind, friendly, worldly aware, travelled, empathetic, sexy, smiley person. Ideally slim(ish) and reasonably fit, though need not be a gym bunny or triathlon athlete - though a trainee could take me in hand!
Attitude and empathy well up my score chart. Politically I am very left and find the current political situation frustrating. I have a seemingly innate sense of fighting injustice, which has caused me some small setbacks over time. As I get older realise that I need to focus a bit more on making me happy and need to extend that and share it in to an `us`. No guarantee's that will be be you, but we will not know if we are not willing to give it a try...

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About him

Country of origin:
United Kingdom
Location:
Norwich (In the city), Norfolk, England
Gender:
Male
Age:
65
Star sign:
Sagittarius
Height:
6' 2" (188cm)
Body type:
Slim
Looks:
Average
Hair colour:
Greying
Eye colour:
Blue
Relationship Status:
Separated
Looking for:
Activity partners; Friends; Let's see what happens; A short-term relationship; A long-term relationship; Something casual
Have children:
Yes, not living with me
Want children:
Maybe
Daily diet:
Eat most things
Smoking:
Never
Drinking:
Occasionally
Education:
University / College student
Occupation:
Retired
Income:
Enough
Ethnicity:
White/Caucasian
Home language:
English
Other languages:
None
Religion:
Atheist

About his ideal match

Country of origin:
Anywhere in the World
Location:
Within 100 miles of postcode district NR3 (Norwich)
Gender:
Female
Age range:
45 - 58
Star sign:
Any
Height:
5' 4" (162cm) - 6' 6" (199cm)
Body type:
Slim; Average; Athletic
Looks:
Very Attractive; Above Average; Average; Attractive
Hair colour:
Any
Eye colour:
Any
Has a photo:
Moderately important
Relationship Status:
Any
Have children:
Any
Want children:
Any
Daily diet:
Eat most things; Eat healthily; Vegetarian; Vegan
Smoking:
Never; Trying to Quit
Drinking:
Occasionally
Education:
University / College student; Further education; University; Postgraduate
Occupation:
Any
Income:
Solvent; Enough; Comfortable; Wealthy
Ethnicity:
Asian; White/Caucasian; Other; Mixed
Home language:
Any
Other languages:
Any
Religion:
Agnostic; Atheist
  • Not important at all
  • Slightly important
  • Moderately important
  • Decidedly important
  • Non-negotiable

More about him

Personality
Sense of humour:
Dry
Intelligence:
Intelligent
Ruled by:
The heart
Party behaviour:
An average mingler
Personality traits:
Easygoing; Faithful; Funny; Generous; Independent; Intelligent; Loving; Loyal; Outspoken; Realistic; Thoughtful; Trustworthy
Valued qualities:
Chemistry; Compassion; Faithfulness; Friendliness; Honesty; Humour; Kindness; Sexiness; Tolerance
Fashion sense:
Casual (I'm usually in my favourite jeans)
Favourite clothing:
Shorts & a T-shirt
Favourite colour:
Blue
More physical characteristics
Hair style:
Short; Disappearing
Eyesight:
I wear glasses only when reading
Facial hair:
I'm clean-shaven
Body hair:
Light
Disabilities:
I have none
Body art:
I don't have any
Leisure & entertainment
Date activities:
A picnic in a park; Dinner at a restaurant; Meeting for coffee; Meeting for drinks; Going for a walk; Visiting a gallery; Going to a museum
Music preferences:
Alternative; Blues; Folk; Punk; R&B / Soul; Reggae; Rock; World
Reading:
I read newspapers occasionally
TV habits:
I tend to watch cultural programmes
TV programmes:
Documentaries; Educational; Movie Channels; Nature/Wildlife; News; Sci-Fi
Movie frequency:
Once or twice a month
Movie preferences:
Adult; Art Films; Cult Classics; Documentary; Independent
Interests:
Auto repair; Gardening; Politics; The arts; Voluntary work
Sport involvement:
Watching from the sidelines
Sports:
Badminton; Walking
Food
Cooking:
I quite like cooking
Food:
Doesn't matter
Go Out to Eat:
I eat out a few times a month
Dietary Restrictions:
I have none
More lifestyle
Pace of Life:
Go with the flow
Time at work:
I don't work
Pastimes of choice:
Spending time outdoors
Time online:
I check in once a day
Take drugs:
Never
Family size:
I've got brothers and sisters
Family contact:
I see them when I can
Relationship Type:
I'm in the middle of a divorce
Willing to Relocate:
I'm flexible
Likes & dislikes
Animals:
I like animals
Turn-ons:
Assertiveness; Flirting; Intelligence; Showing affection in public; Skinny dipping
Turn-offs:
Sarcasm
The deep stuff
Work aspirations:
Fire the boss
Religious attendance:
Never
Dream home:
In the city
Politics:
Socialist
Retirement plans:
Seeing the world in style
Feelings about using MySingleFriend:
Hopeful; Curious; Embarrassed; Optimistic
Honesty:
Very