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Steven_with_a_ph

46 – Redhill, Surrey, England

Genuine guy seeks similar girl (& family) to enjoy life with & make a home together (not retirement)

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Online: Wednesday

Modified: More than 6 months ago

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About him

Country of origin:
United Kingdom
Location:
Redhill, Surrey, England
Gender:
Male
Age:
46
Star sign:
Pisces
Height:
5' 10" (178cm)
Body type:
Athletic
Looks:
Ask me later
Hair colour:
Dark Blonde
Eye colour:
Hazel
Relationship Status:
Single
Looking for:
Let's see what happens; A long-term relationship; Marriage
Have children:
No
Want children:
Ask me later
Daily diet:
Eat healthily
Smoking:
Never
Drinking:
Several times a week
Education:
University
Occupation:
Self-employed
Income:
Enough
Ethnicity:
White/Caucasian
Home language:
English
Other languages:
French; Spanish
Religion:
Agnostic

About his ideal match

Country of origin:
Anywhere in the World
Location:
Within 20 miles of postcode district RH6 (Gatwick / Horley)
Gender:
Female
Age range:
30 - 45
Star sign:
Any
Height:
5' 0" (152cm) - 5' 11" (181cm)
Body type:
Slim; Average; Athletic; A few extra pounds; Curvaceous
Looks:
Very Attractive; Above Average; Average; Attractive
Hair colour:
Any
Eye colour:
Any
Has a photo:
Decidedly important
Relationship Status:
Single; Separated; Divorced; Widowed
Have children:
Any
Want children:
Yes; No
Daily diet:
Eat most things; Eat healthily
Smoking:
Never
Drinking:
Never; Occasionally; Several times a week
Education:
University / College student; Further education; University; Postgraduate; Private school
Occupation:
Any
Income:
Solvent; Enough; Comfortable
Ethnicity:
Asian; Indian; Latino/Hispanic; Middle Eastern; White/Caucasian; Mixed
Home language:
English; French; Spanish
Other languages:
Any
Religion:
Any
  • Not important at all
  • Slightly important
  • Moderately important
  • Decidedly important
  • Non-negotiable

In His Own Words

About him

Fun, outgoing, sensible and kind, I'm quite confident and quite enjoy a lively night out, but equally I can do quiet, relaxed and sensitive on a night in, cooking and curling up on the sofa. I aim to please, delight and surprise and I’m appreciative of the same in return. Live life as an exclamation, not an explanation!

I'm fortunate to have led an interesting and varied life so far, having travelled far and wide, living and working overseas from time to time. There’s been some amazing adventures and I’ve survived to tell the tale... hopefully there’s more to come and we can enjoy them together? For now though, I’m happy in my friendly village surroundings where there’s plenty of open space to explore and country walks & pubs to enjoy (when they’re open).

I work for myself and enjoy flexibility and control of my work life balance, spending time between commercial contracts which keep my brain active and a variety of practical pastimes that feed on my initiative and fuel my active soul. I enjoy being out and about, taking weekends away, catching up with far away friends and family and a bit of motorcycling when its warmer and dry.

I like a challenge and I’m always up for a laugh and having fun, and given the wrong encouragement I can thoroughly misbehave! I don’t like arrogance or excessive vanity but understand and appreciate that everyone has opinions and feelings. (Yes, I know, I just used the 'F word'! 😲)

Slim, almost athletic (but certainly not gym maintained), I'm equally at home in a suit & tie or my boots & overalls. I've not gone grey or bald (yet) and I still have all my own teeth with no fillings! Beard/stubble & specs shown in some pictures are optional; take your pick, the choice is yours if you have a preference or phobia!

So if we’re a match and you're still reading this and like what you see, you know what to do… 😉

About his ideal match

I'd love to meet someone similar really; fun and easy going, mostly sensible and generally stable, with a 'spark', who's looking for a serious long term relationship, sharing our interests, loves and passions, supporting each other through the highs and lows and living an interesting, fulfilling and rewarding life together.

It would be nice to join a family set-up rather than an empty nest but that's not essential, it's more about finding the right person. I’m definitely not making any retirement plans though. Someone with an active lifestyle, sociable and with a sense of humour, hopefully with some common goals for us to enjoy and work towards as one. What would you like to do and where would you like to go?

What His Friends Say

Dawn said...

Steve has been a good friend of mine for over 20 years. He has remained steady & true when so many others haven't. I personally value that he's someone I can trust with anything and is a man of his word. In addition to his more sensible traits, he is someone who is very passionate about his hobbies and those lucky enough to be his partner.

In the past Steve went out with one of my best friends; he was immensely supportive to her through an awful year (lost two parents in close succession and suffered a brain tumour), he kept her buoyant as well as taking care of a lot of the practicalities.

Whilst not having any of his own, Steve is great with kids and I have seen him have a real, positive fatherly impact on previous partners children.

Perhaps I've made him sound a little staid? Don't be mistaken, in addition to being faithful, thoughtful, caring, loyal and dependable; Steve is a real laugh. He's quick-witted and fun to be around.

He ticks 5 essential checks on the deal-breaker list: single, solvent, sexy, sane & sober (as in he drinks but not to excess and not too often).

It doesn't matter whether you find him fit and attractive (which he is), more importantly he's fit for purpose if you're looking for a grounded, dependable, loving and loyal partner. I think the next Lady to grab his interest will be a very lucky Lady indeed and I look forward to meeting you.

More about him

Personality
Sense of humour:
Witty
Intelligence:
Intelligent
Ruled by:
The heart
Party behaviour:
A social butterfly
Personality traits:
Adventurous; Confident; Easygoing; Faithful; Funny; Generous; Happy; Independent; Intelligent; Loving; Loyal; Outgoing; Realistic; Sarcastic; Sensible; Stable; Thoughtful; Trustworthy
Valued qualities:
Chemistry; Compassion; Contentment; Faithfulness; Forgiveness; Friendliness; Honesty; Hope; Humour; Kindness; Patience; Self-control; Sexiness; Tolerance
Fashion sense:
Casual (I'm usually in my favourite jeans)
More physical characteristics
Eyesight:
I wear glasses only when reading
Body hair:
Average
Disabilities:
I have none
Body art:
I don't have any
Leisure & entertainment
Date activities:
A music concert; A picnic in a park; Attending a sporting event; Dinner at a restaurant; Meeting for drinks; Going for a walk
Music preferences:
Dance / Disco; Electronic Dance Music; R&B / Soul; Rock
Reading:
I read newspapers occasionally
Books:
Business; Self-help; Travel
TV habits:
I tend to watch news
TV programmes:
Action / Adventure; Documentaries; Motoring; News; Sport
Movie frequency:
Occasionally or irregularly
Interests:
Auto repair; Business news; Cooking; Gardening; Healthy living; Internet; Investing; Music
Sport involvement:
Watching from the sidelines
Sports:
Badminton; Camping; Cycling; Motorsport; Mountain biking; Rugby; Shooting; Swimming
Food
Cooking:
I quite like cooking
Food:
Doesn't matter
Go Out to Eat:
I eat out a few times a month
Dietary Restrictions:
Lactose-free
More lifestyle
Pace of Life:
Go with the flow
Time at work:
I work at home
Time online:
I'm on for an hour or two a day
Take drugs:
Never
Family size:
I'm an only child
Family contact:
I see them when I can
Relationship Type:
I'm just plain single
Likes & dislikes
Animals:
I like animals
Pets (Like):
Cat(s); Dog(s); Fish
Pets (Dislike):
Exotic pet(s); Reptile(s); Rodent(s); Horse(s)
The deep stuff
Work aspirations:
I already have my ideal job
Religious attendance:
I'm non-practising
Dream home:
In the country
Feelings about using MySingleFriend:
Hopeful; Optimistic
Honesty:
Extremely