In Her Own Words
About her
I've decided that now is the time to dip my toe back into the world of dating. I lost my husband several years ago and my son is starting to like a little bit of space, which has left me feeling like I should perhaps think about investing some of my spare time in myself. I love to laugh and would like nothing more than to slowly get to know someone, share interests and re-discover a bit of a social life! I love the great outdoors and like nothing more than a walk in the countryside followed by a hearty roast and a glass of wine in a nearby pub. Nature fascinates me - my son and I often explore our surroundings to see what we can discover. I am also an animal lover - would love a dog but we are equally happy being looked after by our gorgeous ginger cat who rules the roost and likes bringing us 'presents' from the great outdoors. My friends would describe me as an empath: kind, positive, independent and self-sufficient. I believe in making the best of what we have and that includes the life we live. I would love to find someone to share time with enjoying similar things and - importantly - laughing together.
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About her ideal match
The most important thing for me would be to meet someone who is willing to go at my pace. My son is my world and, whilst he is starting to want his space, we are also extremely close. This is something that I will always want to preserve above everything. Empathy and understanding is key.
What Her Friends Say
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About her
Country of origin: |
United Kingdom | |
Location: |
Christchurch (Bransgore), Dorset, England | |
Gender: |
Female | |
Age: |
51 | |
Star sign: |
Cancer | |
Height: |
5' 5" (165cm) | |
Body type: |
Slim | |
Looks: |
Attractive | |
Hair colour: |
Light Brown | |
Eye colour: |
Blue | |
Relationship Status: |
Widowed | |
Looking for: |
Activity partners; Friends; Let's see what happens; A long-term relationship | |
Have children: |
Yes, living with me | |
Want children: |
No | |
Daily diet: |
Eat most things | |
Smoking: |
Never | |
Drinking: |
Occasionally | |
Education: |
Secondary | |
Occupation: |
Retired | |
Income: |
Enough | |
Ethnicity: |
White/Caucasian | |
Home language: |
English | |
Other languages: |
None | |
Religion: |
Spiritual, but not religious |
About her ideal match
Country of origin: |
Anywhere in the World | ||
Location: |
Within 20 miles of postcode district BH23 (Christchurch) | ||
Gender: |
Male | ||
Age range: |
46 - 54 | ||
Star sign: |
Any | ||
Height: |
5' 9" (174cm) - 6' 2" (189cm) | ||
Body type: |
Slim; Average; Athletic | ||
Looks: |
Above Average; Average; Attractive | ||
Hair colour: |
Any | ||
Eye colour: |
Any | ||
Has a photo: |
Non-negotiable | ||
Relationship Status: |
Single; Divorced; Widowed | ||
Have children: |
Any | ||
Want children: |
No | ||
Daily diet: |
Eat most things; Eat healthily | ||
Smoking: |
Never | ||
Drinking: |
Occasionally; Several times a week | ||
Education: |
Any | ||
Occupation: |
Any | ||
Income: |
Solvent; Enough; Comfortable; Wealthy | ||
Ethnicity: |
White/Caucasian | ||
Home language: |
English | ||
Other languages: |
Any | ||
Religion: |
Agnostic; Atheist; Buddhist / Taoist; Christian / Catholic; Christian / Protestant; Christian / Other; Jewish; Spiritual, but not religious; Christian / Orthodox |
- Not important at all
- Slightly important
- Moderately important
- Decidedly important
- Non-negotiable
More about her
Sense of humour: |
Light-hearted |
Intelligence: |
Intelligent |
Ruled by: |
The head |
Personality traits: |
Adventurous; Easygoing; Faithful; Funny; Generous; Happy; Independent; Intelligent; Loving; Loyal; Optimistic; Thoughtful; Trustworthy |
Valued qualities: |
Compassion; Faithfulness; Friendliness; Honesty; Kindness |
Fashion sense: |
Casual (I'm usually in my favourite jeans) |
Favourite clothing: |
My pyjamas |
Favourite colour: |
Green |
Hair style: |
Medium; Straight |
Eyesight: |
I wear glasses only when reading |
Disabilities: |
I have none |
Body art: |
Pierced ears; A tattoo or two |
Date activities: |
A movie; A picnic in a park; Meeting for coffee; Meeting for drinks; Going for a walk; Going to a museum |
Music preferences: |
Dance / Disco; Pop / Top 40; Rock |
Reading: |
I read books regularly |
Books: |
Best-sellers; Crime; Fantasy; Fiction; Horror; Sci-Fi |
TV habits: |
I watch television most days |
TV programmes: |
Action / Adventure; Comedy / Sit-coms; Cooking / Baking; Dramas; Movie Channels; Nature/Wildlife; Sci-Fi |
Movie frequency: |
Occasionally or irregularly |
Movie preferences: |
Action; Drama; Horror; Mystery; Romance; Sci-Fi |
Interests: |
Board games; Card games; Cooking; Gardening; Healthy living; Internet; Meditation; Music; Reading |
Sport involvement: |
Not involved at all |
Sports: |
Camping; Walking; Yoga |
Cooking: |
I quite like cooking |
Food: |
Chinese; Doesn't matter; Gastro Pub; Italian; Pub Grub; Thai |
Go Out to Eat: |
I eat out a few times a month |
Dietary Restrictions: |
I have none |
Pace of Life: |
Organised |
Time at work: |
I'm retired |
Pastimes of choice: |
Spending time outdoors |
Take drugs: |
Never |
Family contact: |
I see them as often as possible |
Relationship Type: |
I'm just plain single |
Willing to Relocate: |
Not at all |
Animals: |
I like animals |
Pets (Have): |
Cat(s) |
Pets (Like): |
Dog(s); Horse(s) |
Turn-ons: |
Assertiveness; Flirting; Intelligence |
Turn-offs: |
Body piercing(s); Erotica; Long hair |
Religious attendance: |
Only on religious holidays |
Dream home: |
In the country |
Politics: |
Left of centre |
Feelings about using MySingleFriend: |
Nervous |
Honesty: |
Extremely |