In Her Own Words
About her
I am Essex based but London born. Love the city, a country walk and sitting with family having a laugh. I'd probably be described as a young at heart, 'got your back' kind of girl by my friends. Age is a state of mind. I'm looking for that special someone to compliment my life and not to complete it as only we can do that for ourselves. I have a good sense of humour and I am totally authentic as that’s the only way to be.
I have swum all my life. I am a big Rugby fan but also follow Football (not declaring my team yet lol). I play golf moderately well. Happy to do beach, party or nothing. Can't beat a great festival or concert though as music is my go-to! I'm at my happiest watching movies and eating out. I teach swimming and Sign Language, but not at the same time 😉. One of the things on my bucket list is to write a book.....watch this space.
I focus on the 'Now' rather than what's gone by or yet to come. I am not into FB as I prefer to be a private person and I also avoid most social media platforms. My wonderful children are grown up and saving for homes of their own so I have lots of time to myself. I'm pretty independent as it's healthy to be comfortable in your own company but would also love to share time with a kind, funny, totally honest, tactile and supportive man for the next stage of life's journey.
About her ideal match
For me personally, twinkly eyes and a cute smile can usually give an indication of how warm and sincere someone is. And a great sense of humour, as long as there is a serious side when required lol. Someone who can have a two way conversation would be great.
A positive outlook on life, strong family values and good morals. I am close to my children and would hope you are too. I’d be hopeful that social media is not a necessity for any man I meet as there’s nothing worse than trying to get to know someone when they are far more interested in Facebook 🥴
An outlook on life similar to my own - that it is precious and should be lived to the full. A potential partner is what I am looking for eventually and they should believe in treating others like they would like to be treated themselves. Kindness and honesty are the key to a good soul. Friends say a lot about a person and, as I am a social butterfly, I’d look forward to meeting yours and introducing you to mine. I’d like to meet a man who’s not intimidated by a strong woman but who trusts and can be trusted.
As I’m a ‘one man’ woman, loyalty is vital to me so sorry fellas, I’m not into anyone who’s not willing to give it 100% or wants to play games. I’ve had enough of those to last me a lifetime!
So I would love to hear from any guy who’s taken the time to read this and has a genuine interest.
What Her Friends Say
Val said...
If you want a fun loving loyal friend for life....she's your woman! What you see is what you get, she's gorgeous inside and out, she would love to meet an open, honest, fun, like minded person.
She's a huge music and film fan, be prepared to sit up all night to watch the Oscars! She's sporty, extremely sociable, likes a quiz and enjoys her food....no idea how she stays so slim!
Once met never forgotten....in a good way, she has the greatest sense of humour and will definitely make you laugh out loud. I always look forward to meeting her, I know whatever we do will be memorable...such as wearing her new rain jacket in the shower to test if it was waterproof!
Family is very important to her, she's an incredible mum and her kids are a credit to her. Likewise, she is an amazing, loyal, honest, supportive friend, we've been friends for 50 years and I can honestly say she's never once let me down!
Don't know how she fits so much in 24hrs, she's constantly busy and lives life to the full. There will never be a dull moment, but quiet times spent with friends and family are regarded as special too.
If you decide to contact my friend you won't regret it!
Helen said...
Debbie is one special lady. She is a great friend with a wicked sense of humour. Debbie is honest and is great at giving good advice. She is a real homemaker. Debbie is perfect at dealing with tricky people/situations. She doesn't suffer fools but is always polite. She loves to dance and sing. A real social butterfly. Debbie loves the sea. Your life will be full of laughs when Debbie is in it.
About her
Country of origin: |
United Kingdom | |
Location: |
Brentwood (Essex), Essex, England | |
Gender: |
Female | |
Age: |
63 | |
Star sign: |
Gemini | |
Height: |
5' 6" (168cm) | |
Body type: |
Average | |
Looks: |
Above Average | |
Hair colour: |
Dark Brown | |
Eye colour: |
Blue-Green | |
Relationship Status: |
Divorced | |
Looking for: |
A long-term relationship | |
Have children: |
Yes, living with me | |
Want children: |
No | |
Daily diet: |
Eat healthily | |
Smoking: |
Never | |
Drinking: |
Occasionally | |
Education: |
University / College student | |
Occupation: |
Teaching / Education / Training | |
Income: |
Enough | |
Ethnicity: |
White/Caucasian | |
Home language: |
English | |
Other languages: |
None | |
Religion: |
Christian / Other |
About her ideal match
Country of origin: |
United Kingdom | ||
Location: |
Within 40 miles of postcode district CM15 (Brentwood) | ||
Gender: |
Male | ||
Age range: |
59 - 68 | ||
Star sign: |
Any | ||
Height: |
5' 11" (180cm) - 6' 5" (196cm) | ||
Body type: |
Average; Stocky | ||
Looks: |
Above Average | ||
Hair colour: |
Any | ||
Eye colour: |
Any | ||
Has a photo: |
Non-negotiable | ||
Relationship Status: |
Divorced; Widowed | ||
Have children: |
Yes, not living with me; Yes, living with me; Yes, living with me sometimes | ||
Want children: |
No | ||
Daily diet: |
Eat most things; Eat healthily | ||
Smoking: |
Never | ||
Drinking: |
Occasionally | ||
Education: |
Secondary | ||
Occupation: |
Any | ||
Income: |
Enough; Comfortable | ||
Ethnicity: |
White/Caucasian | ||
Home language: |
English | ||
Other languages: |
Any | ||
Religion: |
Christian / Catholic; Christian / Other; Spiritual, but not religious |
- Not important at all
- Slightly important
- Moderately important
- Decidedly important
- Non-negotiable
More about her
Sense of humour: |
Light-hearted |
Intelligence: |
Intelligent |
Ruled by: |
The head |
Party behaviour: |
A social butterfly |
Personality traits: |
Adventurous; Cautious; Confident; Easygoing; Faithful; Funny; Generous; Happy; Independent; Intelligent; Loving; Loyal; Optimistic; Outgoing; Philosophical; Realistic; Sensible; Stable; Thoughtful; Trustworthy |
Valued qualities: |
Compassion; Contentment; Faithfulness; Friendliness; Honesty; Humour; Kindness; Patience; Self-control |
Fashion sense: |
Contemporary (I'm cool, but I don't need labels) |
Favourite clothing: |
My trusty pair of jeans |
Favourite colour: |
Blue |
Hair style: |
Medium; Straight |
Eyesight: |
I wear glasses only when reading |
Disabilities: |
I have none |
Body art: |
A tattoo or two |
Date activities: |
A movie; A music concert; Attending a sporting event; Dinner at a restaurant; Going out dancing; Going to the theatre; Meeting for coffee; Meeting for drinks; Going for a walk |
Music preferences: |
Broadway / Theatrical; Country & Western; Dance / Disco; Instrumental; Pop / Top 40; R&B / Soul; Rock |
Reading: |
I read newspapers regularly; I read magazines regularly; I read books occasionally |
Books: |
(Auto)biographies; Best-sellers; Horror; Romance; Self-help |
TV habits: |
I watch television most days |
TV programmes: |
Action / Adventure; Comedy / Sit-coms; Documentaries; Dramas; Game shows; Movie Channels; Reality shows; Sport; Talk shows; Variety shows |
Movie frequency: |
Once or twice a month |
Movie preferences: |
Action; Comedy; Cult Classics; Horror; Romance; Sci-Fi; War |
Interests: |
Board games; Card games; Meditation; Music; Singing; Writing books |
Sport involvement: |
An active participant |
Sports: |
Bowling; Cycling; Football (Soccer); Golf; Horse Riding; Pool; Rugby; Softball; Swimming; Table Tennis; Water Polo; Yoga |
Cooking: |
I quite like cooking |
Food: |
Doesn't matter |
Go Out to Eat: |
I only eat out on special occasions |
Dietary Restrictions: |
Gluten-free |
Pace of Life: |
Organised |
Time at work: |
I work a standard 40 hour week |
Pastimes of choice: |
Spending time with the family |
Time online: |
Less than once a week |
Take drugs: |
Never |
Family size: |
I've got a sister |
Family contact: |
I see them as often as possible |
Relationship Type: |
I'm just plain single |
Willing to Relocate: |
I'd consider it |
Animals: |
I like animals |
Pets (Have): |
Cat(s) |
Pets (Dislike): |
Exotic pet(s); Reptile(s); Rodent(s) |
Turn-ons: |
Dancing; Flirting; Intelligence; Showing affection in public |
Turn-offs: |
Body piercing(s); Erotica; Long hair; Power; Sarcasm; Thrill seeking |
Work aspirations: |
I already have my ideal job |
Religious attendance: |
Rarely |
Dream home: |
Mansion with loads of servants |
Politics: |
I have no interest in politics |
Retirement plans: |
Finally writing that novel |
Feelings about using MySingleFriend: |
Excited |
Honesty: |
Extremely |