In His Own Words
About him
My friends all call me Lemon, I'm a calm, logical and easygoing guy. But when I'm with my friends doing a fun activity I tend to be the one to hype people up and try and maximize their fun.
I love to read, fantasy and sci-fi mostly and I write the same, although that never darkens the pages of anyone but me. I also enjoy video games with friends, I used to play obsessively when I was younger but as i grew up they seemed less all encompassing and more a hobby than a way of life.
I love learning, I tend to know random facts on scattered topics due to the fact that at some point something I didn't know will have reared its head and I spent the next 15 minutes to 3 hours learning about it, sometimes procrastinating my actual college work to do so.
My version of fun is to spend some time with family or friends until I get overwhelmed with them and then go to a comfortable corner to watch something or to read my latest book. Either that or I love to drive, a windy road and a small coupe is probably the most fun I've had on public property.
I would have to say that I'm a realist, I look at things with a pretty logical mind and my family come to me for advice when they are making decisions because of this. I will say that I have spent this year working on myself to try and find ways of modifying my outlook to help my be a bit more open and layed back in my thinking and I believe I've done a pretty good job.
About his ideal match
A major quality I would be looking for in a match would be a sense of humour, laughter is a big part of my life and it would be important to share that. Also while not as vital, an appreciation for the more punky/ rock side of music would come in handy.
I dont think there is a secret to making a relationship work, I think it's just finding the person you want to make it work with and being in the right stage in your personal development to make that happen. I feel as if I've developed myself to the point where I could make something work, and now it's a case if finding the the right person and hoping they are in that place also.
Also laughing at my bad jokes would be good.
Can reading be a shared activity? Yeah I've decided it can. So reading, games would be a plus, I do like a good long walk, going for a drive. And whatever activities they would like to introduce me to.
I dont think many things would be a deal breaker, However I wouldn't want or expect anyone to change who they are happy being for me, so I'll just list a few pet peeves that would irk me but not be considered deal breaking.
Heavy smoking, heavy drinking, not liking my mother and step dad, liking my biological father, disrespectful attitudes towards .....
Okay I have a few deal breakers I've just realised listed below
Racism, homophobia, hate speech aimed at vulnerable groups, religious bigotry (in any direction), conspiracy theory nut.
I think that's most of them but legitimately I just realised that distinction as I was writing this so I think I'll need to go and have a think later about this.
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About him
Country of origin: |
United Kingdom | |
Location: |
Stornoway, Western Isles, Scotland | |
Gender: |
Male | |
Age: |
29 | |
Star sign: |
Sagittarius | |
Height: |
6' 2" (188cm) | |
Body type: |
Average | |
Looks: |
Average | |
Hair colour: |
Shaved | |
Eye colour: |
Blue | |
Relationship Status: |
Single | |
Looking for: |
Just online friends; Friends; Let's see what happens; A short-term relationship; A long-term relationship; Marriage; Something casual | |
Have children: |
No | |
Want children: |
Maybe | |
Daily diet: |
Eat healthily | |
Smoking: |
Never | |
Drinking: |
Occasionally | |
Education: |
University / College student | |
Occupation: |
Public sector | |
Income: |
Enough | |
Ethnicity: |
White/Caucasian | |
Home language: |
English | |
Other languages: |
None | |
Religion: |
Atheist |
About his ideal match
Country of origin: |
Anywhere in the World | ||
Location: |
Anywhere in the World | ||
Gender: |
Female | ||
Age range: |
20 - 40 | ||
Star sign: |
Any | ||
Height: |
Any | ||
Body type: |
Any | ||
Looks: |
Very Attractive; Above Average; Average; Attractive | ||
Hair colour: |
Any | ||
Eye colour: |
Any | ||
Has a photo: |
Moderately important | ||
Relationship Status: |
Single; Separated; Divorced; Widowed; It's Complicated | ||
Have children: |
Any | ||
Want children: |
Any | ||
Daily diet: |
Any | ||
Smoking: |
Never; Occasionally; Trying to Quit; E-cigarette User | ||
Drinking: |
Never; Occasionally | ||
Education: |
University / College student; Further education; University; Postgraduate; Private school | ||
Occupation: |
Any | ||
Income: |
Any | ||
Ethnicity: |
Any | ||
Home language: |
Any | ||
Other languages: |
Any | ||
Religion: |
Any |
- Not important at all
- Slightly important
- Moderately important
- Decidedly important
- Non-negotiable
More about him
Sense of humour: |
Witty |
Intelligence: |
Intelligent |
Ruled by: |
The head |
Party behaviour: |
An impartial observer |
Personality traits: |
Easygoing; Faithful; Funny; Generous; Independent; Intelligent; Loving; Loyal; Outspoken; Philosophical; Realistic; Sarcastic; Sensible; Shy; Thoughtful; Trustworthy |
Valued qualities: |
Chemistry; Compassion; Faithfulness; Honesty; Humility; Humour; Kindness; Moderation; Self-control; Sexiness; Tolerance |
Fashion sense: |
Classic (My tastes echo long-established norms) |
Favourite clothing: |
A leather biker's jacket |
Favourite colour: |
Yellow |
Hair style: |
Short; Well-behaved |
Eyesight: |
I wear glasses |
Facial hair: |
I have a full beard |
Body hair: |
Hairy |
Disabilities: |
I have a chronic illness |
Body art: |
Several tattoos |
Date activities: |
A movie; A music concert; A picnic in a park; Dinner at a restaurant; Going to the theatre; Meeting for coffee; Meeting for drinks; Going for a walk; Visiting a gallery; Going to a museum |
Music preferences: |
Alternative; Blues; Broadway / Theatrical; Classical; Country & Western; Instrumental; Jazz; Latin; Opera; Punk; R&B / Soul; Rap / Hip Hop; Rock; Scottish; World |
Reading: |
I read books regularly |
Books: |
Crime; Fantasy; Fiction; Sci-Fi |
TV habits: |
I watch television most days |
TV programmes: |
Action / Adventure; Cartoons; Documentaries; Sci-Fi |
Movie frequency: |
Occasionally or irregularly |
Movie preferences: |
Action; Comedy; Documentary; Drama; Romance; Sci-Fi; War; Westerns |
Interests: |
Auto repair; Board games; Card games; Computer & video games; Computer programming; Healthy living; Internet; Music; Photography; Politics; Reading; Singing; Woodwork; Writing books; Writing poetry |
Sport involvement: |
An active participant |
Sports: |
Badminton; Chess; Martial arts; Rock climbing; Rowing; Rugby |
Cooking: |
I have to cook |
Food: |
Asian Fusion; Chinese; Fine Dining; French; German; Greek; Indian; Italian; Japanese; Pub Grub; Seafood; Sushi; Thai; Vietnamese |
Go Out to Eat: |
I only eat out on special occasions |
Dietary Restrictions: |
Sugar-free; Carb-free |
Pace of Life: |
Chilled |
Time at work: |
I work a standard 40 hour week |
Pastimes of choice: |
Reading a book |
Time online: |
I'm on several hours a day |
Take drugs: |
Never |
Family size: |
I've got brothers and sisters |
Family contact: |
I see them when I can |
Relationship Type: |
I'm just plain single |
Willing to Relocate: |
I'm flexible |
Animals: |
I like animals |
Pets (Have): |
Cat(s); Dog(s); Other |
Pets (Like): |
Bird(s); Exotic pet(s); Fish; Reptile(s); Rodent(s); Horse(s) |
Turn-ons: |
Assertiveness; Body piercing(s); Dancing; Erotica; Flirting; Intelligence; Long hair; Power; Sarcasm; Tattoo(s); Thrill seeking |
Turn-offs: |
Showing affection in public; Skinny dipping |
Work aspirations: |
Get promoted |
Religious attendance: |
Doesn't apply |
Dream home: |
In the mountains |
Politics: |
Left of centre |
Retirement plans: |
Finally writing that novel |
Feelings about using MySingleFriend: |
Nervous; Hopeful; Curious |
Honesty: |
Extremely |
