In Her Own Words
About her
I’m a lesbian feminist of the second-wave variety 🦖Academic, activist & writer, doing a PhD in Creative Writing. Bit of commercial management consulting too. I am fairly driven but also need downtime. I moved to Cornwall in September 2021 and love living by the sea. I’m a two-cat household 🐈🐈⬛. I guarantee myth, magick, and merriment. Druid & Jungian. Other esoteric interests. Also like the arts, culture, cinema, travel & having a good laugh. Sober & soulful! I like dining out but should probably rein that in a bit. Out as a lesbian since 1994.
About her ideal match
If you don't believe in magic, you will never find it! I'm looking for a curious, spiritual, down-to-earth dyke. You've probably had a few scrapes in this brief pause between two great mysteries, but you keep growing and grinning. You've probably been out as a dyke for many years. You don't centre men in your feminism, but you're warm towards the good 'uns. You might have grown-up kids who live independently, but they're not a total nightmare; if they are, you don't enable it. You appreciate that relationships are made from third-level compatibility, fallible self-awareness, and conscious loving, not stardust and sex (though you like those things too). You're probably unconventional in some way, but not off the Rorschach chart!
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About her
Country of origin: |
United Kingdom | |
Location: |
Falmouth (PENRYN), Cornwall, England | |
Gender: |
Female | |
Age: |
53 | |
Star sign: |
Gemini | |
Height: |
5' 3" (160cm) | |
Body type: |
A few extra pounds | |
Looks: |
Ask me later | |
Hair colour: |
Greying | |
Eye colour: |
Blue | |
Relationship Status: |
Divorced | |
Looking for: |
Let's see what happens; A long-term relationship | |
Have children: |
No | |
Want children: |
No | |
Daily diet: |
Eat most things | |
Smoking: |
Never | |
Drinking: |
Never | |
Education: |
Postgraduate | |
Occupation: |
Ask me later | |
Income: |
Solvent | |
Ethnicity: |
White/Caucasian | |
Home language: |
English | |
Other languages: |
None | |
Religion: |
Spiritual, but not religious |
About her ideal match
Country of origin: |
Anywhere in the World | ||
Location: |
Within 100 miles of postcode district TR10 (Penryn) | ||
Gender: |
Female | ||
Age range: |
47 - 59 | ||
Star sign: |
Any | ||
Height: |
5' 0" (152cm) - 5' 7" (171cm) | ||
Body type: |
Any | ||
Looks: |
Very Attractive; Above Average; Average; Attractive | ||
Hair colour: |
Any | ||
Eye colour: |
Any | ||
Has a photo: |
Moderately important | ||
Relationship Status: |
Single; Separated; Divorced; Widowed | ||
Have children: |
No; Yes, not living with me | ||
Want children: |
No | ||
Daily diet: |
Eat most things; Eat healthily; Vegetarian; Vegan | ||
Smoking: |
Never; Occasionally | ||
Drinking: |
Never; Occasionally | ||
Education: |
University; Postgraduate | ||
Occupation: |
Any | ||
Income: |
Solvent; Enough; Comfortable; Wealthy | ||
Ethnicity: |
Any | ||
Home language: |
English | ||
Other languages: |
English | ||
Religion: |
Spiritual, but not religious |
- Not important at all
- Slightly important
- Moderately important
- Decidedly important
- Non-negotiable
More about her
Sense of humour: |
Witty |
Intelligence: |
Highbrow |
Ruled by: |
Opportunity |
Party behaviour: |
A social butterfly |
Personality traits: |
Adventurous; Ambitious; Confident; Intelligent; Loving; Outgoing; Outspoken; Philosophical; Thoughtful; Trustworthy |
Valued qualities: |
Chemistry; Compassion; Forgiveness; Friendliness; Honesty; Kindness; Self-control; Tolerance |
Fashion sense: |
Casual (I'm usually in my favourite jeans) |
Favourite clothing: |
Shorts & a T-shirt |
Favourite colour: |
Blue |
Hair style: |
Short |
Eyesight: |
I wear glasses |
Disabilities: |
I have a hearing impairment |
Body art: |
A tattoo or two |
Date activities: |
A movie; A music concert; Dinner at a restaurant; Going to the theatre; Meeting for coffee; Visiting a gallery; Going to a museum |
Music preferences: |
Classical; Folk; Instrumental; Opera; Rock; Scottish |
Reading: |
I read books regularly; I read newspapers occasionally; I read magazines occasionally |
Books: |
Best-sellers; Crime; Fiction; Horror; Mystery; Self-help; Travel |
TV habits: |
I watch television most days |
TV programmes: |
Action / Adventure; Comedy / Sit-coms; Dramas; Movie Channels; Nature/Wildlife |
Movie frequency: |
Once or twice a month |
Movie preferences: |
Action; Art Films; Comedy; Cult Classics; Drama; Horror; Independent; Mystery |
Interests: |
Board games; Card games; Meditation; Music; Photography; Politics; Reading; Singing; The arts; Voluntary work; Writing books |
Sport involvement: |
Watching from the couch |
Sports: |
Bodyboarding; Camping; Canoeing; Football (Soccer); Pool; Sailing; Scuba diving; Skiing; Snorkeling; Surf skiing/kayaking; Swimming; Tennis |
Cooking: |
I quite like cooking |
Food: |
Asian Fusion; Chinese; Fast food; Fine Dining; French; Gastro Pub; German; Greek; Indian; Italian; Japanese; Pub Grub; Seafood; Thai; Vietnamese |
Go Out to Eat: |
I eat out a few times a month |
Dietary Restrictions: |
I have none |
Pace of Life: |
Manageable |
Time at work: |
I work at home |
Pastimes of choice: |
Socialising with friends |
Time online: |
I'm on several hours a day |
Relationship Type: |
I'm just plain single |
Willing to Relocate: |
I'd consider it |
Animals: |
I love my pet(s) |
Pets (Have): |
Cat(s) |
Pets (Like): |
Dog(s); Horse(s) |
Pets (Dislike): |
Bird(s); Exotic pet(s); Fish; Reptile(s); Rodent(s) |
Work aspirations: |
I already have my ideal job |
Religious attendance: |
Doesn't apply |
Dream home: |
On a beach |
Politics: |
Socialist |
Retirement plans: |
Seeing the world in style |
Feelings about using MySingleFriend: |
Hopeful |
Honesty: |
Very |
