In Her Own Words
About her
Originally from Sweden, I’ve always felt most alive in nature, which is why I love the peace of countryside living, balanced with city visits for culture and connection. Friends describe me as genuine, kind, ambitious and thoughtful, and I’m looking for someone who values meaningful connections and shares a similar outlook.
I have a lifelong love for horses and dressage, and I adore my cat (dogs too, though I haven’t added one to the family yet). I thrive on exploring new places and cultures, whether that’s through travel, museums, or the arts. Staying active is also a big part of my life, from hiking and riding to running and spending time outdoors. I live by the 80-20 rule because life is about balance - 20% of my diet is definitely reserved for treats.
When I’m not outdoors, I love cozy nights in with a good film or unwinding by the fireplace, ideally with a great meal or a glass of wine. I’m a foodie at heart, always eager to try new dishes and enjoy culinary experiences. I also love a trip to the pub after an active day or exploring cultural gems in the city. You’ll find me just as comfortable in wellies as I am dressing up for a night out.
About her ideal match
I’m looking to build a real, fulfilling relationship, which I believe requires two people who are both ready to invest. For me, that means showing up with curiosity, honesty, and a positive outlook on life.
I value someone who can balance closeness with independence and shares life’s adventures with authenticity, humour, and style. I’m looking for a partner who’s warm and engaging, who enjoys a good laugh but also values growth and genuine conversation. Bonus points if you’re up for teaching me tennis and being my partner on the court.
I’m open to relocating for the right person, thanks to the flexibility of my work, which allows me to be based anywhere in the U.K.
If you’re self-aware, value meaningful connections, and understand what it takes to build a relationship based on depth, kindness, and a growth mindset, we might be on the same wavelength. Say hello if you feel the same.
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About her
Country of origin: |
Sweden | |
Location: |
Newbury, Berkshire, England | |
Gender: |
Female | |
Age: |
39 | |
Star sign: |
Cancer | |
Height: |
5' 5" (165cm) | |
Body type: |
Average | |
Looks: |
Ask me later | |
Hair colour: |
Dark Brown | |
Eye colour: |
Brown | |
Relationship Status: |
Single | |
Looking for: |
Let's see what happens; A long-term relationship; Marriage | |
Have children: |
No | |
Want children: |
Maybe | |
Daily diet: |
Eat most things | |
Smoking: |
Never | |
Drinking: |
Occasionally | |
Education: |
Postgraduate | |
Occupation: |
Self-employed | |
Income: |
Ask me later | |
Ethnicity: |
White/Caucasian | |
Home language: |
Swedish | |
Other languages: |
English | |
Religion: |
Atheist |
About her ideal match
Country of origin: |
Anywhere in the World | ||
Location: |
Within 60 miles of postcode district RG20 (Newbury) | ||
Gender: |
Male | ||
Age range: |
34 - 44 | ||
Star sign: |
Any | ||
Height: |
5' 10" (177cm) - 6' 11" (210cm) or taller | ||
Body type: |
Average; Athletic | ||
Looks: |
Very Attractive; Above Average; Attractive | ||
Hair colour: |
Any | ||
Eye colour: |
Any | ||
Has a photo: |
Non-negotiable | ||
Relationship Status: |
Single; Divorced; Widowed | ||
Have children: |
No; Yes, not living with me; Yes, living with me sometimes | ||
Want children: |
Yes; Maybe | ||
Daily diet: |
Eat most things; Eat healthily | ||
Smoking: |
Never | ||
Drinking: |
Occasionally | ||
Education: |
University / College student; University; Postgraduate | ||
Occupation: |
Any | ||
Income: |
Enough; Comfortable; Wealthy | ||
Ethnicity: |
Any | ||
Home language: |
Any | ||
Other languages: |
Any | ||
Religion: |
Agnostic; Atheist; Spiritual, but not religious |
- Not important at all
- Slightly important
- Moderately important
- Decidedly important
- Non-negotiable
More about her
Sense of humour: |
Sophisticated |
Intelligence: |
Intelligent |
Party behaviour: |
An average mingler |
Personality traits: |
Ambitious; Confident; Easygoing; Funny; Generous; Independent; Intelligent; Loving; Loyal; Optimistic; Outspoken; Realistic; Sensible; Stable; Thoughtful; Trustworthy |
Valued qualities: |
Chemistry; Compassion; Contentment; Devotion; Faithfulness; Friendliness; Honesty; Humility; Humour; Kindness; Patience; Self-control; Sexiness |
Fashion sense: |
Contemporary (I'm cool, but I don't need labels) |
Hair style: |
Medium; Long; Well-behaved |
Eyesight: |
I wear glasses only when reading |
Body art: |
I don't have any |
Date activities: |
Meeting for coffee; Meeting for drinks; Going for a walk |
Music preferences: |
Alternative; Blues; Classical; Dance / Disco; Electronic Dance Music; Jazz; Pop / Top 40; R&B / Soul; Reggae; Rock; World |
Reading: |
I read magazines regularly; I read books occasionally; I read newspapers occasionally |
Books: |
Crime; Fantasy; Fiction; Mystery |
TV habits: |
I watch television every day |
TV programmes: |
Action / Adventure; Cartoons; Comedy / Sit-coms; Cooking / Baking; Documentaries; Dramas; Game shows; Movie Channels; Nature/Wildlife; Sci-Fi |
Movie frequency: |
Occasionally or irregularly |
Movie preferences: |
Action; Art Films; Comedy; Cult Classics; Documentary; Drama; Horror; Independent; Mystery; Romance; Sci-Fi |
Interests: |
Board games; Card games; Computer & video games; Cooking; Gardening; Healthy living; Music; Painting; Reading |
Sport involvement: |
A regular competitor |
Sports: |
Hiking; Horse Riding; Running; Tennis; Walking |
Cooking: |
I have to cook |
Food: |
Asian Fusion; Chinese; Fine Dining; French; Gastro Pub; German; Greek; Indian; Italian; Japanese; Seafood; Sushi; Thai; Vietnamese |
Go Out to Eat: |
I eat out a few times a month |
Dietary Restrictions: |
I have none |
Pace of Life: |
Organised |
Time at work: |
I work part-time |
Time online: |
Less than once a week |
Family size: |
I've got sisters |
Family contact: |
I see them when I can |
Relationship Type: |
I'm just plain single |
Willing to Relocate: |
For the right person, to the moon! |
Animals: |
I love my pet(s) |
Pets (Have): |
Cat(s); Horse(s) |
Pets (Like): |
Bird(s); Dog(s) |
Pets (Dislike): |
Reptile(s) |
Turn-ons: |
Assertiveness; Dancing; Flirting; Intelligence; Showing affection in public; Skinny dipping |
Turn-offs: |
Body piercing(s); Long hair; Power; Sarcasm; Tattoo(s); Thrill seeking |
Work aspirations: |
I already have my ideal job |
Religious attendance: |
Never |
Politics: |
I have no interest in politics |
Retirement plans: |
Seeing the world in style |
Feelings about using MySingleFriend: |
Hopeful; Curious; Optimistic; Excited |
Honesty: |
Extremely |