In His Own Words
About him
I'm a creative and emotionally intuitive soul who believes in the transformative power of art, music, and human connection. I teach performing arts (and direct too many shows to count), co-run a vibrant weekend theatre school, and still find time to write, compose, and perform. My life is rich with rhythm, story, and meaning—and I’m looking to share that with someone who sees the world not just as it is, but as it could be.
I’m endlessly curious. Whether it’s discussing McGilchrist over a glass of red, exploring new music, or laughing at the sheer chaos of parenting, I love ideas that spark something deeper. I care deeply about people—their quirks, their stories, their why.
My friends would say I’m a blend of calm presence and creative whirlwind—someone who listens with intent, loves fiercely, and strives to make meaningful things happen.
About his ideal match
I'm drawn to someone emotionally intelligent, kind, and present—someone who listens deeply, values honesty, and can hold space for both joy and vulnerability. Creativity matters to me; whether you’re an artist or simply someone who finds poetry in the everyday, you understand the transformative power of art, music, and story. You're independent and grounded, with a life you love—but you're ready to build something shared and meaningful. You get that parenting is sacred, messy, and central to who I am, and you respect that. You think deeply, laugh easily, and bring a calm energy that steadies rather than drains. You’re open-hearted, no-nonsense, and ready for real connection—one built on curiosity, mutual respect, and something that feels a little bit like magic.
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About him
Country of origin: |
United Kingdom | |
Location: |
Tunbridge Wells (Rusthall), Kent, England | |
Gender: |
Male | |
Age: |
42 | |
Star sign: |
Virgo | |
Height: |
6' 1" (185cm) | |
Body type: |
Slim | |
Looks: |
Above Average | |
Hair colour: |
Balding | |
Eye colour: |
Blue | |
Relationship Status: |
Divorced | |
Looking for: |
Just online friends; Activity partners; Friends; Let's see what happens; A short-term relationship; A long-term relationship; Marriage; Something casual | |
Have children: |
Yes, living with me | |
Want children: |
Maybe | |
Daily diet: |
Eat healthily | |
Smoking: |
Occasionally | |
Drinking: |
Several times a week | |
Education: |
Postgraduate | |
Occupation: |
Teaching / Education / Training | |
Income: |
Enough | |
Ethnicity: |
White/Caucasian | |
Home language: |
English | |
Other languages: |
French | |
Religion: |
Agnostic |
About his ideal match
Country of origin: |
Anywhere in the World | ||
Location: |
Tunbridge Wells (England, United Kingdom) | ||
Gender: |
Female | ||
Age range: |
30 - 45 | ||
Star sign: |
Taurus; Cancer; Leo; Virgo; Libra; Scorpio; Capricorn; Aquarius; Pisces | ||
Height: |
5' 1" (154cm) - 6' 2" (189cm) | ||
Body type: |
Slim | ||
Looks: |
Above Average | ||
Hair colour: |
Dark Blonde; Light Brown; Dark Brown | ||
Eye colour: |
Blue; Blue-Green; Brown; Green | ||
Has a photo: |
Moderately important | ||
Relationship Status: |
Single; Divorced | ||
Have children: |
No; Yes, living with me; Yes, living with me sometimes | ||
Want children: |
Maybe | ||
Daily diet: |
Eat most things; Eat healthily | ||
Smoking: |
Occasionally | ||
Drinking: |
Occasionally; Several times a week | ||
Education: |
Further education; University; Postgraduate | ||
Occupation: |
Arts / Music / Writing; Teaching / Education / Training; Agriculture; Health / Social Care | ||
Income: |
Solvent; Enough; Comfortable; Wealthy | ||
Ethnicity: |
Asian; Black/African descent; Indian; Latino/Hispanic; Middle Eastern; White/Caucasian; Mixed; Black/Caribbean descent | ||
Home language: |
English; Dutch; French; German; Italian; Spanish | ||
Other languages: |
French | ||
Religion: |
Any |
- Not important at all
- Slightly important
- Moderately important
- Decidedly important
- Non-negotiable
More about him
Sense of humour: |
Witty |
Intelligence: |
Intelligent |
Ruled by: |
The heart |
Party behaviour: |
A social butterfly |
Personality traits: |
Ambitious; Easygoing; Faithful; Funny; Generous; Intelligent; Loving; Loyal; Philosophical; Sensible; Thoughtful; Trustworthy |
Valued qualities: |
Charity; Compassion; Faithfulness; Honesty; Kindness; Patience; Self-control |
Fashion sense: |
Casual (I'm usually in my favourite jeans) |
Favourite clothing: |
Shorts & a T-shirt |
Favourite colour: |
Blue |
Hair style: |
Disappearing |
Eyesight: |
I've got 20/20 vision |
Facial hair: |
I have a full beard |
Body hair: |
Hairy chest only |
Disabilities: |
I have none |
Body art: |
I don't have any |
Date activities: |
A movie; A music concert; A picnic in a park; Attending a sporting event; Dinner at a restaurant; Going out dancing; Going to the theatre; Meeting for coffee; Meeting for drinks; Going for a walk; Visiting a gallery; Going to a museum |
Music preferences: |
Alternative; Blues; Broadway / Theatrical; Classical; Country & Western; Folk; Gospel / Religious; Jazz; Opera; Punk; Rock; World |
Reading: |
I read books occasionally |
Books: |
Crime; Non-fiction |
TV habits: |
I watch television most days |
TV programmes: |
Comedy / Sit-coms; Dramas; Movie Channels; Sport |
Movie frequency: |
Once or twice a month |
Movie preferences: |
Art Films; Black & White / Silent; Comedy; Cult Classics; Documentary; Drama; Independent; Romance; War |
Interests: |
Card games; Cooking; Meditation; Music; Painting; Photography; Singing; The arts; Voluntary work |
Sport involvement: |
An active participant |
Sports: |
Bodyboarding; Camping; Cricket; Football (Soccer); Running; Skateboarding; Swimming; Table Tennis; Yoga |
Cooking: |
I really enjoy cooking |
Food: |
Chinese; French; Greek; Indian; Italian; Japanese; Seafood; Thai; Vietnamese |
Go Out to Eat: |
I eat out a few times a month |
Dietary Restrictions: |
I have none |
Pace of Life: |
Manageable |
Time at work: |
I work a standard 40 hour week |
Pastimes of choice: |
Socialising with friends |
Time online: |
I check in once a day |
Family size: |
I've got a brother and a sister |
Family contact: |
I see them as often as possible |
Relationship Type: |
I'm just plain single |
Willing to Relocate: |
I'm unlikely to move |
Animals: |
I like animals |
Turn-offs: |
Erotica; Flirting |
Work aspirations: |
Find new, more meaningful work |
Religious attendance: |
Rarely |
Dream home: |
On a beach |
Politics: |
Left of centre |
Retirement plans: |
Pursuing a sport or hobby |
Feelings about using MySingleFriend: |
Curious |
Honesty: |
Extremely |