In His Own Words
About him
I'm looking for someone who believes in kindness, is non-judgmental, is affectionate. My happiness comes from making the person I'm with happy and sharing in their joy.
I'm looking for someone who wants to build something meaningful together, has time for a relationship, who appreciates romance and effort rather than seeing it as "too much"
I believe that relationships require constant work and effort, but it should never feel like a chore—it's something you do because you genuinely care. I'm strongly opposed to complacency or taking people for granted.
I strive to be non-judgmental and open-minded. Knowing how fragile and short life is, I try to live with as few regrets as possible and make the most of every moment.
I believe in romance, passion, and true companionship—not convenience or settling for less than what feels right.
I value healthy communication and don't like going to sleep on an argument. I believe in addressing issues and working through problems together. I am patient, understanding and supportive. I want to be united as a couple, having each other's back and being there when times are hard, supporting and encouraging one another.
About his ideal match
I'm looking for someone whobelieves in kindness, is non-judgmental, is affectionate, loyal, genuine, passionate, and understanding. Someone who values communication and is naturally empathetic. I'm drawn to people who don't go to sleep on an argument and can forgive without holding grudges.
My ideal match is emotionally available and willing to put in the effort that meaningful relationships requires. They understand that vulnerability is a strength, not a weakness. They're supportive of my goals while having their own passions and interests.
I value someone who can be both my lover and my friend - someone who brings laughter into everyday moments and stands by me during difficult times. Someone who sees romance as an ongoing journey rather than just the initial excitement.
Above all, I'm looking for authenticity - someone comfortable in their own skin who encourages me to be my true self as well.
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About him
Country of origin: |
United Kingdom | |
Location: |
Monmouth (Monmouthshire), Monmouthshire, Wales | |
Gender: |
Male | |
Age: |
43 | |
Star sign: |
Gemini | |
Height: |
5' 11" (180cm) | |
Body type: |
Athletic | |
Looks: |
Attractive | |
Hair colour: |
Light Brown | |
Eye colour: |
Blue | |
Relationship Status: |
Single | |
Looking for: |
Activity partners; Friends; A long-term relationship; Marriage | |
Have children: |
Yes, not living with me | |
Want children: |
Maybe | |
Daily diet: |
Eat most things | |
Smoking: |
Never | |
Drinking: |
Occasionally | |
Education: |
University | |
Occupation: |
IT / Telecoms | |
Income: |
Comfortable | |
Ethnicity: |
White/Caucasian | |
Home language: |
English | |
Other languages: |
Ask me later | |
Religion: |
Christian / Other |
About his ideal match
Country of origin: |
Anywhere in the World | ||
Location: |
Within 60 miles of postcode district NP25 (Monmouth) | ||
Gender: |
Female | ||
Age range: |
25 - 60 | ||
Star sign: |
Any | ||
Height: |
Any | ||
Body type: |
Any | ||
Looks: |
Any | ||
Hair colour: |
Any | ||
Eye colour: |
Any | ||
Has a photo: |
Non-negotiable | ||
Relationship Status: |
Any | ||
Have children: |
Any | ||
Want children: |
Any | ||
Daily diet: |
Any | ||
Smoking: |
Never | ||
Drinking: |
Any | ||
Education: |
Any | ||
Occupation: |
Any | ||
Income: |
Any | ||
Ethnicity: |
Any | ||
Home language: |
Any | ||
Other languages: |
Any | ||
Religion: |
Any |
- Not important at all
- Slightly important
- Moderately important
- Decidedly important
- Non-negotiable
More about him
Sense of humour: |
Dry |
Intelligence: |
Intelligent |
Ruled by: |
The head |
Party behaviour: |
An average mingler |
Personality traits: |
Easygoing; Generous; Loving; Loyal; Realistic |
Valued qualities: |
Compassion; Faithfulness; Forgiveness; Honesty; Kindness; Patience |
Fashion sense: |
Contemporary (I'm cool, but I don't need labels) |
Favourite clothing: |
My Armani suit / My Versace dress |
Favourite colour: |
Blue |
Hair style: |
Short |
Eyesight: |
I wear glasses only when reading |
Facial hair: |
I have a full beard |
Body hair: |
Light |
Body art: |
I don't have any |
Date activities: |
Meeting for coffee |
Music preferences: |
Classical; Country & Western; Heavy Metal; Rock |
Reading: |
I read newspapers regularly |
Books: |
Sci-Fi |
TV habits: |
I tend to watch news |
TV programmes: |
Comedy / Sit-coms; Documentaries; Sci-Fi |
Movie frequency: |
Occasionally or irregularly |
Movie preferences: |
Comedy; Romance; Sci-Fi |
Interests: |
Computer programming; Healthy living; Internet |
Sport involvement: |
Watching from the sidelines |
Sports: |
American Football |
Cooking: |
I cook rather than starve |
Food: |
Doesn't matter |
Go Out to Eat: |
I only eat out on special occasions |
Dietary Restrictions: |
I have none |
Pace of Life: |
Organised |
Time at work: |
I work a standard 40 hour week |
Pastimes of choice: |
Exercising |
Time online: |
I check in once a day |
Take drugs: |
Never |
Family size: |
I've got a brother and a sister |
Family contact: |
I see them when I can |
Relationship Type: |
I'm just plain single |
Willing to Relocate: |
I'm flexible |
Animals: |
I like animals |
Pets (Like): |
Cat(s); Dog(s) |
Religious attendance: |
Rarely |
Dream home: |
In the country |
Politics: |
Right of centre |
Retirement plans: |
Living in the country |
Feelings about using MySingleFriend: |
Hopeful |
Honesty: |
Extremely |