In Her Own Words
About her
Friends would say that I am bubbly, witty, intelligent, sociable, fit and active with a sense of fun and adventure. I am positive and smile and laugh a lot, including at myself. I read widely and keep abreast of current affairs. I enjoy playing pickleball, running, cooking and hosting friends, learning Spanish, theatre, skiing, travel both near and far, watching live sport, eating out or chilling with a glass of red in front of the tv. I work part time which is really flexible and have a couple of longstanding voluntary roles which are important to me. My children are now independent so I am looking to start the next chapter of my life. My photos are all recent, mostly 2025.
About her ideal match
I am looking for somebody genuine, intelligent, positive, tactile and active with a mutual physical attraction. If you look like George Clooney, that’s a bonus, but I am hardly Amal, so back to reality!!
Happy to explore each other’s interests so you don’t need to have the same starting list as me. If you believe life is there to be lived and made the best of, that’s a great start.
Not a fan of smoking.
What Her Friends Say
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About her
Country of origin: |
United Kingdom | |
Location: |
St Albans, Hertfordshire, England | |
Gender: |
Female | |
Age: |
56 | |
Star sign: |
Sagittarius | |
Height: |
5' 1" (155cm) | |
Body type: |
Slim | |
Looks: |
Attractive | |
Hair colour: |
Dark Brown | |
Eye colour: |
Green | |
Relationship Status: |
Divorced | |
Looking for: |
Let's see what happens; A long-term relationship | |
Have children: |
Yes, not living with me | |
Want children: |
No | |
Daily diet: |
Eat most things | |
Smoking: |
Never | |
Drinking: |
Several times a week | |
Education: |
University | |
Occupation: |
Self-employed | |
Income: |
Comfortable | |
Ethnicity: |
White/Caucasian | |
Home language: |
English | |
Other languages: |
Ask me later | |
Religion: |
Agnostic |
About her ideal match
Country of origin: |
Anywhere in the World | ||
Location: |
Within 100 miles of postcode district AL5 (Harpenden) | ||
Gender: |
Male | ||
Age range: |
50 - 64 | ||
Star sign: |
Any | ||
Height: |
5' 7" (169cm) - 6' 3" (191cm) | ||
Body type: |
Slim; Average; Athletic | ||
Looks: |
Very Attractive; Above Average; Attractive | ||
Hair colour: |
Any | ||
Eye colour: |
Any | ||
Has a photo: |
Non-negotiable | ||
Relationship Status: |
Divorced; Widowed | ||
Have children: |
No; Yes, not living with me; Yes, living with me sometimes | ||
Want children: |
No | ||
Daily diet: |
Eat most things; Eat healthily | ||
Smoking: |
Never | ||
Drinking: |
Never; Occasionally; Several times a week | ||
Education: |
University / College student; Further education; University; Postgraduate | ||
Occupation: |
Any | ||
Income: |
Comfortable | ||
Ethnicity: |
Any | ||
Home language: |
English | ||
Other languages: |
Any | ||
Religion: |
Any |
- Not important at all
- Slightly important
- Moderately important
- Decidedly important
- Non-negotiable
More about her
Sense of humour: |
Witty |
Intelligence: |
Intelligent |
Personality traits: |
Adventurous; Easygoing; Funny; Generous; Happy; Independent; Intelligent; Loving; Loyal; Outgoing; Stable; Trustworthy |
Valued qualities: |
Chemistry; Compassion; Faithfulness; Honesty; Humour; Kindness; Sexiness |
Fashion sense: |
Contemporary (I'm cool, but I don't need labels) |
Hair style: |
Short; Curly |
Eyesight: |
I wear contacts |
Body art: |
I don't have any |
Date activities: |
A picnic in a park; Attending a sporting event; Dinner at a restaurant; Going out dancing; Going to the theatre; Meeting for drinks; Going for a walk; Visiting a gallery |
Music preferences: |
Blues; Dance / Disco; Jazz; Pop / Top 40 |
Reading: |
I read books regularly; I read newspapers regularly |
Books: |
Crime; Fiction; Travel |
TV programmes: |
Cooking / Baking; Documentaries; Dramas; Movie Channels; News; Sport |
Movie preferences: |
Action; Comedy; Drama; Mystery; Romance |
Interests: |
Board games; Card games; Cooking; Gardening; Healthy living; Music; Politics; Reading; Shopping; The arts; Voluntary work |
Sport involvement: |
A regular competitor |
Sports: |
Athletics; Cricket; Football (Soccer); Golf; Rowing; Running; Skiing; Swimming; Table Tennis; Tennis; Walking; Water skiing; Yoga |
Cooking: |
I really enjoy cooking |
Food: |
Asian Fusion; Fine Dining; French; Gastro Pub; Indian; Italian |
Go Out to Eat: |
I eat out a few times a week |
Dietary Restrictions: |
I have none |
Pace of Life: |
Organised |
Time at work: |
I work part-time |
Family size: |
I've got a sister |
Family contact: |
I see them when I can |
Relationship Type: |
I'm just plain single |
Willing to Relocate: |
I'd consider it |
Animals: |
I like animals |
Pets (Like): |
Dog(s) |
Turn-ons: |
Flirting; Intelligence |
Turn-offs: |
Body piercing(s); Tattoo(s) |
Religious attendance: |
Rarely |
Honesty: |
Extremely |