In His Own Words
About him
Be serious when you need to, be silly when you want to.
I'm a creative soul with a wild imagination, usually with a big grin on my big hairy face. I love to laugh and to have fun, be it climbing trees, or making a fool of yourself in fancy dress, life should be fun whatever you do. Enjoy the little moments and simple pleasures, the smells of summer, being outdoors at sunset, cold sunny days, hearing people laugh. Lobsters claw or monkeys tail? I love the 'Would you rather' game.
Music and art are my biggest passions, I love going to gigs, festivals or even just shaking my rump to my ipod while waiting for a train... music is everything to me. I'm also in a little band which is so much fun. I'm really into my drawing and painting, photography, upcyling and raiding skips, going to exhibitions and galleries etc, designing/getting tattoos and anything creative...I always make my own (and slightly odd) greeting cards. Quoting films at the perfect moment. I enjoy a long Sunday walk and if there is a nice pub with a cozy fire and good grub along the way, well it would be rude not to pop in and sample its delights... I think it might actually be a law. I also love tearing around the countryside on my motorbike trying not to die.
Sometimes however the lazybones inside me is too great, so a day on the sofa, possibly building a little fort, watching good films and eating cake is right up my street.
If you want to know more drop me a line and say hello or 'Allo... Either way come inside and have a nice cuppa tea.
Peace out y'all!
Profession: Photographer/image retoucher
About his ideal match
Someone with a great imagination, an odd sense of humour and creative. Someone who's independent and lives their own life, has their own interests. I'm a romantic at heart so also someone who is affectionate, who's not afraid to have a little cuddle in public.
What His Friends Say
Emily said...
Duncan (Spud) is the friend I call when I need cheering up. That doesn't mean he's shallow or incapable of deep thought, it just means that he has the ability to make you see things in a better light - and if there is no better light, then he manages to distract you for a while!
He is a popular guy, and is loyal (sometimes to a fault) - Spud can get on with pretty much anyone and has lots of friends. He is honest and generous and always keeps his word. I really don't think he is capable of lying! But he is trusting and I guess that's how he's been hurt in the past.
He is a guy who should be in a relationship. He's not a player, although he has many women as friends and you'd easily mistake him for a Lothario! He isn't scared of commitment and he'd do anything for the person he loves.
I honestly don't think there's a bad bone in his body. If you like yuppy guys who care more about looks than substance, money more than love then Spud isn't your guy. If you like creative souls with wild imaginations and great spirit, who would share with you whatever he has and thinks life should be exciting, but would be as happy staying in and watching a movie as he would living it up in London, then get in touch with him! Just don't get jealous that he has women as friends, because I couldn't stand to lose him!
About him
Country of origin: |
United Kingdom | |
Location: |
Tunbridge Wells, Kent, England | |
Gender: |
Male | |
Age: |
42 | |
Star sign: |
Sagittarius | |
Height: |
5' 6" (168cm) | |
Body type: |
Average | |
Looks: |
Average | |
Hair colour: |
Dark Brown | |
Eye colour: |
Brown | |
Relationship Status: |
Divorced | |
Looking for: |
Let's see what happens; A short-term relationship; A long-term relationship | |
Have children: |
No | |
Want children: |
Yes | |
Daily diet: |
Eat most things | |
Smoking: |
Occasionally | |
Drinking: |
Occasionally | |
Education: |
University / College student | |
Occupation: |
Arts / Music / Writing | |
Income: |
Ask me later | |
Ethnicity: |
White/Caucasian | |
Home language: |
English | |
Other languages: |
Ask me later | |
Religion: |
Ask me later |
About his ideal match
Country of origin: |
Anywhere in the World | ||
Location: |
Within 10 miles of postcode district TN4 (Tunbridge Wells) | ||
Gender: |
Female | ||
Age range: |
28 - 43 | ||
Star sign: |
Any | ||
Height: |
4' 7" (140cm) or shorter - 5' 6" (168cm) | ||
Body type: |
Slim; Average; Athletic; A few extra pounds | ||
Looks: |
Very Attractive; Above Average; Average; Attractive | ||
Hair colour: |
Blonde; Dark Blonde; Light Brown; Dark Brown; Auburn; Red; Black; Changes Often; Grey; Other | ||
Eye colour: |
Any | ||
Has a photo: |
Moderately important | ||
Relationship Status: |
Single; Separated; Divorced; Widowed | ||
Have children: |
Any | ||
Want children: |
Yes; Maybe | ||
Daily diet: |
Eat most things | ||
Smoking: |
Occasionally | ||
Drinking: |
Never; Occasionally; Several times a week | ||
Education: |
Any | ||
Occupation: |
Any | ||
Income: |
Any | ||
Ethnicity: |
Any | ||
Home language: |
Any | ||
Other languages: |
Any | ||
Religion: |
Any |
- Not important at all
- Slightly important
- Moderately important
- Decidedly important
- Non-negotiable
More about him
Sense of humour: |
Obscure |
Intelligence: |
Street Smart |
Ruled by: |
The heart |
Party behaviour: |
An average mingler |
Personality traits: |
Loving |
Valued qualities: |
Chemistry; Compassion; Friendliness; Honesty; Humour; Kindness |
Fashion sense: |
Alternative (I'm stylish in my own special way) |
Favourite clothing: |
Shorts & a T-shirt |
Favourite colour: |
Purple |
Hair style: |
Long; Wild; It has its moods |
Eyesight: |
I've got 20/20 vision |
Facial hair: |
I have a goatee |
Body art: |
Pierced ears; More piercings; Several tattoos |
Date activities: |
A picnic in a park; Dinner at a restaurant; Meeting for drinks; Going for a walk |
Music preferences: |
Alternative; Blues; Classical; Dance / Disco; Electronic Dance Music; Folk; Heavy Metal; Instrumental; Jazz; Punk; Rap / Hip Hop; Reggae; Rock; World |
Reading: |
I read books occasionally |
Books: |
(Auto)biographies |
TV programmes: |
Action / Adventure; Cartoons; Comedy / Sit-coms; Documentaries; Movie Channels; Nature/Wildlife; News; Sci-Fi |
Movie preferences: |
Action; Art Films; Comedy; Cult Classics; Horror; Independent; Mystery; Sci-Fi |
Interests: |
Board games; Cooking; Gardening; Music; Painting; Photography; Pottery; Sculpting; Sewing; Shopping; The arts; Woodwork; Writing poetry |
Sport involvement: |
Bored to death |
Sports: |
Canoeing; Cycling; Hiking; Ice Skating; Mountain biking; Rock climbing; Running; Surf skiing/kayaking; Walking |
Cooking: |
I really enjoy cooking |
Food: |
Asian Fusion; Chinese; Fast food; French; Gastro Pub; German; Greek; Indian; Italian; Japanese; Pub Grub; Seafood; Sushi; Thai; Vietnamese |
Go Out to Eat: |
I eat out a few times a month |
Pace of Life: |
Go with the flow |
Time at work: |
I always put in overtime |
Pastimes of choice: |
Pursuing a hobby |
Family size: |
I've got a brother |
Family contact: |
I see them when I can |
Relationship Type: |
I'm just plain single |
Animals: |
I like animals |
Pets (Like): |
Bird(s); Dog(s) |
Turn-ons: |
Body piercing(s); Showing affection in public; Tattoo(s); Thrill seeking |
Turn-offs: |
Power |
Work aspirations: |
Find new, more meaningful work |
Religious attendance: |
Never |
Dream home: |
Eco home in the countryside |
Politics: |
Liberal |
Retirement plans: |
Backpacking around the globe |
Honesty: |
Very |
