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Tom_8140

44 – Oxford, Oxfordshire, England

Fan of folk/rock/metal seeks musical companion .

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In His Own Words

About him

Am into all kinds of music (see above), as well as acting / going out to the theatre ... plus languages, film, art, science. Keen on long distance running and countryside walks, and also like socialising with all my friends!

About his ideal match

Am looking for someone who is into music and similar kinds of stuff to myself, as well as just getting out and about!

What His Friends Say

Beth said...

How many men do you know who are handsome, funny, love loud music, have a great social life, and still remember to send a birthday card to their elderly aunties? Not that many I'll bet, because Tom is a rare beast indeed.

The main thing about Tom is he's an incredibly nice person. I like to think that when it comes to our personalities (I'm his sister) we're a bit like Arnold Schwarzenegger and Danny DeVito in "Twins". He got all the kind, polite, thoughtful qualities and I got whatever rubbish was left over...

Don't be fooled into thinking he's a bit of a nice-but-dim type though. He's as sharp as a tack, and has got the stack of qualifications to prove it. Despite this sensible side, he has a well-honed sense of humour, and comes from a family where no-one is allowed to take themselves too seriously (sorry).

Things Tom really loves: films (the Blues Brothers is his favourite), live rock music and - to balance that out - folk music, a good cup of tea or three, science geekery, reading, drama (the good put-on-a-play kind, not the bad EastEnders-style-fight-in-the-street kind), and chilling out in the pub with his friends.

Tom likes to run around the beautiful Oxford parks in order to counterbalance his sandwich habit, but thankfully he's not the sort of man who'll want to bore you about how many sit-ups he did this morning.

I forgot to mention that he's a total genius for learning languages, so if you fancy a holiday in China, Spain or Sweden but are worried about picking up the vocab in time, never fear - he's already got it sorted.

I think Tom would suit someone just as good-natured and positive as he is, who would perhaps appreciate a bit of Jane Austen level courtesy, but also feels comfortable shoving on some old clothes and going for a ramble in the countryside with lots of chat and laughter thrown in.

About him

Country of origin:
United Kingdom
Location:
Oxford, Oxfordshire, England
Gender:
Male
Age:
44
Star sign:
Leo
Height:
6' 0" (183cm)
Body type:
Average
Looks:
Average
Hair colour:
Ask me later
Eye colour:
Brown
Relationship Status:
Single
Looking for:
Just online friends; Activity partners; Friends; Let's see what happens; A short-term relationship; A long-term relationship; Marriage
Have children:
No
Want children:
Maybe
Daily diet:
Eat most things
Smoking:
Never
Drinking:
Occasionally
Education:
Postgraduate
Occupation:
Labour / Construction
Income:
Ask me later
Ethnicity:
Ask me later
Home language:
English
Other languages:
Chinese; French; Spanish
Religion:
Agnostic

About his ideal match

Country of origin:
Anywhere in the World
Location:
Within 60 miles of postcode district OX4 (Oxford)
Gender:
Female
Age range:
24 - 35
Star sign:
Any
Height:
Any
Body type:
Any
Looks:
Any
Hair colour:
Any
Eye colour:
Any
Has a photo:
Decidedly important
Relationship Status:
Any
Have children:
Any
Want children:
Any
Daily diet:
Any
Smoking:
Any
Drinking:
Any
Education:
Any
Occupation:
Any
Income:
Any
Ethnicity:
Any
Home language:
Any
Other languages:
Any
Religion:
Any
  • Not important at all
  • Slightly important
  • Moderately important
  • Decidedly important
  • Non-negotiable

More about him

Personality
Sense of humour:
Witty
Intelligence:
Street Smart
Ruled by:
The head
Party behaviour:
An average mingler
Personality traits:
Generous; Independent; Outgoing; Thoughtful
Valued qualities:
Friendliness; Humour; Kindness
Fashion sense:
Casual (I'm usually in my favourite jeans)
Favourite clothing:
Shorts & a T-shirt
Favourite colour:
Green
More physical characteristics
Hair style:
Medium
Eyesight:
I wear glasses
Facial hair:
I have a full beard
Body art:
I don't have any
Leisure & entertainment
Date activities:
A music concert
Music preferences:
Blues; Classical; Folk; Heavy Metal; Rock
Reading:
I read books occasionally; I read newspapers occasionally; I read magazines occasionally
Books:
Fantasy; Fiction; History; Non-fiction; Sci-Fi; Science / Technology
TV habits:
I rarely watch television
TV programmes:
Action / Adventure; Cartoons; Comedy / Sit-coms; Documentaries; Dramas; Music Channels; Nature/Wildlife
Movie frequency:
Occasionally or irregularly
Movie preferences:
Comedy; Documentary; Drama; War
Interests:
Gardening; Music; Painting; Singing; Voluntary work
Sport involvement:
Watching from the sidelines
Sports:
Running; Swimming; Table Tennis; Walking
Food
Cooking:
I quite like cooking
Food:
Chinese; Indian; Italian; Pub Grub; Seafood
Go Out to Eat:
I only eat out on special occasions
Dietary Restrictions:
I have none
More lifestyle
Pace of Life:
Manageable
Time at work:
I work a standard 40 hour week
Pastimes of choice:
Spending time with the family
Time online:
I check in once a day
Take drugs:
Never
Family size:
I've got a sister
Family contact:
I see them when I can
Relationship Type:
I'm just plain single
Willing to Relocate:
I'd consider it
Likes & dislikes
Animals:
I like animals
Pets (Like):
Bird(s); Cat(s); Dog(s); Fish
Turn-ons:
Dancing; Flirting; Intelligence; Long hair; Showing affection in public; Power; Sarcasm; Thrill seeking
Turn-offs:
Assertiveness; Body piercing(s)
The deep stuff
Work aspirations:
Find new, more meaningful work
Religious attendance:
Doesn't apply
Dream home:
On a beach
Retirement plans:
Sailing the seven seas
Feelings about using MySingleFriend:
Hopeful
Honesty:
Quite