In His Own Words
About him
Am into all kinds of music (see above), as well as acting / going out to the theatre ... plus languages, film, art, science. Keen on long distance running and countryside walks, and also like socialising with all my friends!
About his ideal match
Am looking for someone who is into music and similar kinds of stuff to myself, as well as just getting out and about!
What His Friends Say
Beth said...
How many men do you know who are handsome, funny, love loud music, have a great social life, and still remember to send a birthday card to their elderly aunties? Not that many I'll bet, because Tom is a rare beast indeed.
The main thing about Tom is he's an incredibly nice person. I like to think that when it comes to our personalities (I'm his sister) we're a bit like Arnold Schwarzenegger and Danny DeVito in "Twins". He got all the kind, polite, thoughtful qualities and I got whatever rubbish was left over...
Don't be fooled into thinking he's a bit of a nice-but-dim type though. He's as sharp as a tack, and has got the stack of qualifications to prove it. Despite this sensible side, he has a well-honed sense of humour, and comes from a family where no-one is allowed to take themselves too seriously (sorry).
Things Tom really loves: films (the Blues Brothers is his favourite), live rock music and - to balance that out - folk music, a good cup of tea or three, science geekery, reading, drama (the good put-on-a-play kind, not the bad EastEnders-style-fight-in-the-street kind), and chilling out in the pub with his friends.
Tom likes to run around the beautiful Oxford parks in order to counterbalance his sandwich habit, but thankfully he's not the sort of man who'll want to bore you about how many sit-ups he did this morning.
I forgot to mention that he's a total genius for learning languages, so if you fancy a holiday in China, Spain or Sweden but are worried about picking up the vocab in time, never fear - he's already got it sorted.
I think Tom would suit someone just as good-natured and positive as he is, who would perhaps appreciate a bit of Jane Austen level courtesy, but also feels comfortable shoving on some old clothes and going for a ramble in the countryside with lots of chat and laughter thrown in.
About him
Country of origin: |
United Kingdom | |
Location: |
Oxford, Oxfordshire, England | |
Gender: |
Male | |
Age: |
44 | |
Star sign: |
Leo | |
Height: |
6' 0" (183cm) | |
Body type: |
Average | |
Looks: |
Average | |
Hair colour: |
Ask me later | |
Eye colour: |
Brown | |
Relationship Status: |
Single | |
Looking for: |
Just online friends; Activity partners; Friends; Let's see what happens; A short-term relationship; A long-term relationship; Marriage | |
Have children: |
No | |
Want children: |
Maybe | |
Daily diet: |
Eat most things | |
Smoking: |
Never | |
Drinking: |
Occasionally | |
Education: |
Postgraduate | |
Occupation: |
Labour / Construction | |
Income: |
Ask me later | |
Ethnicity: |
Ask me later | |
Home language: |
English | |
Other languages: |
Chinese; French; Spanish | |
Religion: |
Agnostic |
About his ideal match
Country of origin: |
Anywhere in the World | ||
Location: |
Within 60 miles of postcode district OX4 (Oxford) | ||
Gender: |
Female | ||
Age range: |
24 - 35 | ||
Star sign: |
Any | ||
Height: |
Any | ||
Body type: |
Any | ||
Looks: |
Any | ||
Hair colour: |
Any | ||
Eye colour: |
Any | ||
Has a photo: |
Decidedly important | ||
Relationship Status: |
Any | ||
Have children: |
Any | ||
Want children: |
Any | ||
Daily diet: |
Any | ||
Smoking: |
Any | ||
Drinking: |
Any | ||
Education: |
Any | ||
Occupation: |
Any | ||
Income: |
Any | ||
Ethnicity: |
Any | ||
Home language: |
Any | ||
Other languages: |
Any | ||
Religion: |
Any |
- Not important at all
- Slightly important
- Moderately important
- Decidedly important
- Non-negotiable
More about him
Sense of humour: |
Witty |
Intelligence: |
Street Smart |
Ruled by: |
The head |
Party behaviour: |
An average mingler |
Personality traits: |
Generous; Independent; Outgoing; Thoughtful |
Valued qualities: |
Friendliness; Humour; Kindness |
Fashion sense: |
Casual (I'm usually in my favourite jeans) |
Favourite clothing: |
Shorts & a T-shirt |
Favourite colour: |
Green |
Hair style: |
Medium |
Eyesight: |
I wear glasses |
Facial hair: |
I have a full beard |
Body art: |
I don't have any |
Date activities: |
A music concert |
Music preferences: |
Blues; Classical; Folk; Heavy Metal; Rock |
Reading: |
I read books occasionally; I read newspapers occasionally; I read magazines occasionally |
Books: |
Fantasy; Fiction; History; Non-fiction; Sci-Fi; Science / Technology |
TV habits: |
I rarely watch television |
TV programmes: |
Action / Adventure; Cartoons; Comedy / Sit-coms; Documentaries; Dramas; Music Channels; Nature/Wildlife |
Movie frequency: |
Occasionally or irregularly |
Movie preferences: |
Comedy; Documentary; Drama; War |
Interests: |
Gardening; Music; Painting; Singing; Voluntary work |
Sport involvement: |
Watching from the sidelines |
Sports: |
Running; Swimming; Table Tennis; Walking |
Cooking: |
I quite like cooking |
Food: |
Chinese; Indian; Italian; Pub Grub; Seafood |
Go Out to Eat: |
I only eat out on special occasions |
Dietary Restrictions: |
I have none |
Pace of Life: |
Manageable |
Time at work: |
I work a standard 40 hour week |
Pastimes of choice: |
Spending time with the family |
Time online: |
I check in once a day |
Take drugs: |
Never |
Family size: |
I've got a sister |
Family contact: |
I see them when I can |
Relationship Type: |
I'm just plain single |
Willing to Relocate: |
I'd consider it |
Animals: |
I like animals |
Pets (Like): |
Bird(s); Cat(s); Dog(s); Fish |
Turn-ons: |
Dancing; Flirting; Intelligence; Long hair; Showing affection in public; Power; Sarcasm; Thrill seeking |
Turn-offs: |
Assertiveness; Body piercing(s) |
Work aspirations: |
Find new, more meaningful work |
Religious attendance: |
Doesn't apply |
Dream home: |
On a beach |
Retirement plans: |
Sailing the seven seas |
Feelings about using MySingleFriend: |
Hopeful |
Honesty: |
Quite |