In His Own Words
About him
I'm quite reserved, with a dry, occasionally dark sense of humour. I am accidentally witty, and wish I could do it on command. I've a tendency to be very focussed on those things I am interested in. One thing I've noticed after thinking about it is that I tend to be very loyal, once someone has passed a certain point.
I've been diagnosed with moderate Aspergers, which can make life interesting on occasions, but I've managed to get through most of my life without knowing I had it so I can obviously cope :-).
I like to know what is true and what is not, and don't like saying untrue things.
I'm a curious mix of the old and new. In terms of clothes I like to wear, I tend to be an 80's guy- 17 or 1880's, that is. On the other hand, I'm also very much into such modern contrivances as computers.
I'm pretty introverted, but I have excellent manners and I'm generally relaxed. I love getting to know people and understanding them.
I am very into tabletop roleplaying and live-roleplaying, which are both forms of improvisational theatre with varying fantasical elements (varies from game to game). It's a very imaginative hobby, and a lot of my current social circle is based around it. I'm always happy to introduce new people to it- if they want to, clearly, but I also enjoy going out and socialising independent of that. I'm a voracious reader, and can generally be found with something to read nearby if I'm not out socialising. And sometimes even if I am.
I'm also very much into martial arts, and was studying Wing Chun kung fu. One day, I'd really like to study Capoeira- it looks awesome, and very different from the various styles I've practised in the past or currently.
Anything else, just ask! I'm a good conversationalist and I'm often pootling about on the internet, so I'm always happy to strike up a conversation about anything. Even random silliness!
Profession: IT Support Engineer
About his ideal match
Trust and communication are important, and a recognition that there are times I can't deal with people.
Given my lack of experience, it's hard to say what would make things work, so a willingness to try and find out would probably help!
A lot of my hobby time is spent doing roleplaying games, so liking them would help, or at least being tolerant.
Racism, sexism and bigotry of any form are dealbreakers.
What His Friends Say
catherine w said...
My friend cannot lie, he just cant! He really is someone you can trust as its just not in his DNA! It doesnt always make his life easy but thats just the way he is. He also loves live action role-playing games and can keep it very realistic as he has an encylcopedic mind for the details and facts that make it feel very real...
About him
Country of origin: |
United Kingdom | |
Location: |
Lewisham, London, England | |
Gender: |
Male | |
Age: |
44 | |
Star sign: |
Taurus | |
Height: |
5' 11" (180cm) | |
Body type: |
Average | |
Looks: |
Average | |
Hair colour: |
Dark Brown | |
Eye colour: |
Hazel | |
Relationship Status: |
Single | |
Looking for: |
Just online friends; Activity partners; Friends; Let's see what happens; A short-term relationship; A long-term relationship; Marriage | |
Have children: |
No | |
Want children: |
Ask me later | |
Daily diet: |
Ask me later | |
Smoking: |
Never | |
Drinking: |
Occasionally | |
Education: |
University | |
Occupation: |
IT / Telecoms | |
Income: |
Solvent | |
Ethnicity: |
White/Caucasian | |
Home language: |
English | |
Other languages: |
French; German | |
Religion: |
Christian / Other |
About his ideal match
Country of origin: |
Anywhere in the World | ||
Location: |
Within 60 miles of postcode district EN6 (Potters Bar) | ||
Gender: |
Female | ||
Age range: |
28 - 50 | ||
Star sign: |
Any | ||
Height: |
4' 9" (144cm) - 6' 11" (210cm) or taller | ||
Body type: |
Slim; Average; Athletic; Curvaceous; Full figured | ||
Looks: |
Very Attractive; Above Average; Average; Attractive | ||
Hair colour: |
Any | ||
Eye colour: |
Any | ||
Has a photo: |
Slightly important | ||
Relationship Status: |
Single; Separated; Divorced; Widowed | ||
Have children: |
No | ||
Want children: |
No; Maybe | ||
Daily diet: |
Eat most things; Eat healthily | ||
Smoking: |
Never; Occasionally; Trying to Quit; E-cigarette User | ||
Drinking: |
Occasionally; Several times a week; Most days | ||
Education: |
University / College student; Further education; University; Postgraduate; Private school | ||
Occupation: |
Administrative / Secretarial; Arts / Music / Writing; Executive / Management; Financial services; Food / Catering; Legal; Medical / Dental / Veterinary; Political / Government; Sales / Marketing; Self-employed; Teaching / Education / Training; Science / Engineering / Research; Public sector; Advertising / PR; Media; Consultancy / Design; HR / Recruitment; IT / Telecoms; Leisure / Tourism; Retail | ||
Income: |
Solvent; Enough; Comfortable; Wealthy | ||
Ethnicity: |
Asian; Indian; Latino/Hispanic; Middle Eastern; White/Caucasian; Mixed | ||
Home language: |
Any | ||
Other languages: |
Any | ||
Religion: |
Any |
- Not important at all
- Slightly important
- Moderately important
- Decidedly important
- Non-negotiable
More about him
Sense of humour: |
Dry |
Intelligence: |
Rocket Scientist |
Ruled by: |
The head |
Party behaviour: |
An impartial observer |
Personality traits: |
Easygoing; Faithful; Intelligent; Loyal; Philosophical; Quiet; Thoughtful; Trustworthy |
Valued qualities: |
Honesty |
Favourite colour: |
Black |
Eyesight: |
I wear glasses |
Facial hair: |
I have a goatee |
Body hair: |
Average |
Body art: |
I don't have any |
Date activities: |
A movie; A music concert; Dinner at a restaurant; Meeting for coffee; Meeting for drinks |
Music preferences: |
Alternative; Broadway / Theatrical; Classical; Heavy Metal; Instrumental; Jazz; Rock |
Reading: |
I read books regularly; I read newspapers regularly |
Books: |
Fantasy; Fiction; Sci-Fi |
TV habits: |
I rarely watch television |
TV programmes: |
Action / Adventure; Cartoons; Sci-Fi |
Movie frequency: |
Occasionally or irregularly |
Interests: |
Board games; Card games; Computer & video games; Computer programming; Internet; Music; Reading |
Sport involvement: |
Not involved at all |
Sports: |
Chess; Martial arts; Swimming |
Cooking: |
I have to cook |
Food: |
Chinese; Fast food; Italian; Japanese; Sushi; Thai |
Go Out to Eat: |
I only eat out on special occasions |
Pace of Life: |
Organised |
Time at work: |
I work a standard 40 hour week |
Pastimes of choice: |
Reading a book |
Take drugs: |
Never |
Family size: |
I've got sisters |
Relationship Type: |
I'm just plain single |
Willing to Relocate: |
I'd consider it |
Animals: |
I like animals |
Pets (Like): |
Cat(s); Dog(s); Rodent(s) |
Turn-ons: |
Assertiveness; Intelligence |
Work aspirations: |
Get promoted |
Religious attendance: |
Rarely |
Dream home: |
In the city |
Politics: |
Liberal |
Retirement plans: |
Pursuing a sport or hobby |
Feelings about using MySingleFriend: |
Hopeful; Curious |
Honesty: |
Extremely |
