About him
I am an ordinary man who has so far had an extraordinary life, everyone has their own story to tell and I look forward to hearing about you and yours.
I am optimistic and enjoy being around positive, creative people. I value health and well being above everything else and like doing things that are good for the soul like walking up mountains, gym, yoga, a good book, writing, drawing and work (yes I enjoy my work).
I consider inner beauty more important than external looks but get it that nothing happens without good chemistry, so no supermodels need apply if your not as beautiful on the inside as you look on the outside 😊.
I believe in treating people with respect and don't like to judge too quickly, although isn't it annoying when you hold the door for someone and they don't say thanks 🤔
I have come onto the site because I don't hang around pubs or clubs, that's not to say i don't go into pubs (not a total bore 😁) but i prefer places where you can hear yourself speak, the sort of cafe bar type establishments that have a good mix of people who aren't obsessed with trying to look cool (i'm not even sure if its cool to still use the word cool, I know 'Will I Am' uses 'dope' . . . ).
I do a bit of travelling between the NW and London most weeks, so hardly the environment or lifestyle to meet new people as when I'm away it's normally work, food, sleep, repeat. I look forward to hearing a little more about you 😊
About his ideal match
It's difficult to say what the perfect partner is as looks, although important are only part of the package. Honesty, integrity, warmth in nature, good conversation and if you don't take yourself too seriously are all great qualities that could make us a great match.
When looking through some of the profiles I've been impressed with the honesty that has been written about what people want out of a relationship (and more importantly what they don't want) I'll stick with the basic principles of being in great company with someone you just want to be around, I don't think that's too much to ask or maybe it is 🤔
If you are as comfortable with your hair scrunched up in gym kit as you are in a nice going out dress that's definitely a positive indicator of compatibility 😉
I stated in my 'why people should get to know you' that I am an 'ordinary' man which i believe to be correct , however having just checked the dictionary for 'ordinary' it is defined as 'with no special or distinctive features', or (worse) 'not interesting or exceptional', i did of course consider erasing such an inaccurate account of myself but thought 'sod it', i'll leave it in.
Once you view my profile pic you will (hopefully) see that i look like an 'ordinary' fellow which has got to be a good thing right, as you won't have to worry about women chasing after me, (although there was this one time in Specsavers . . .) This is clearly not the case for those poor souls who have to date the likes of Brad Pitt . . . (No offence Brad and no offence to all you Angelina's out there)
I do of course have much more to offer than 'ordinary' and when the time comes when our looks are not so important as the bond we have created through friendship, kindness, reliability, humour, sadness, happiness and life's general challenges, we will reflect on the leap of faith we both took in bringing us together and have a giggle at the ridiculousness of 'ordinary'.
